Right o.k. This topic might have been previously discussed on this forum, but it is really eating away at my confidence.

I have been "studying" the game for approx a year, after some initially very good steps i.e. girls saying they have a bond with me like no other etc. I had a bit of a situation in which a girl rumbled me, using some canned material. (However that was along time ago and I steer clear of using canned material these days, particularly as a result of gambler and his book "Natural game", which is awesome btw). So needless to say I went a bit cool in regard to the game and used my social circle primarily to get chicks. But over the last few weeks I have moved to a totally new country, so I have dived back in to the game.

Anyway, all is going swimmingly, however I cannot get that initial rumbling out of my head. Even though I won't be using canned material, I always feel that girl might realise and catch onto the subtle structure of our conversation.

I know people are going to say, "sort your inner game out" etc, but I doubt it is that straight forward.

Furthermore, if we (as a community) are targeting the best looking women, isn't there a high probability that she has been gamed previously?

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To be honest it seems as if you're paranoid. If you're truly running natural game and such, and you aren't using canned material, then how do you think that a girl would 'catch on'? I mean cocky funny is a pretty big block in the structure of natural game, but I dont think a girl would be like...

"Wait.. my spidey sense is tingling... He's being cocky and funny, HE MUST BE A PICK UP ARTIST!!!"

I mean natural game is so subtle, it teaches you to become a more interesting person altogether, most other things teach you to become someone you aren't.

For the second question, sure its a great possibility, especially in big cities. But, why does it matter, if you're looking to fuck around do you honestly think you aren't getting sloppy seconds/thirds/fourths/seventy-fifths? I mean who cares if one is a PUA or not. I mean sure, he may have gotten her in bed the same way you did but she isn't gonna pick up on that.

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Bru, you are right, I am paranoid wreck. I'll get it seen to ASAP a good dose of nlp should do the trick.

I need to stop focusing on other peoples reality and concentrate on my own and get my head out of my arse.

For the record this is a mini epiphany

Cheers.

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sarcasm?

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For once, no.

Jeez it does read a bit like that though.

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If you find a girl who rumbles you... So what? Move onto the next one, chances are she hasn't heard your stuff before.