So I'm in college and I have this HB 9 in one of my classes and she throws IOIs my way all the time. I know she's playing the field and not tied down to anything serious which is good. She initiates conversation first a lot texts me in class once in a while but we have yet to hang out more than once. She invited me out for her birthday but I couldn't make it out (long story). Finals week is right now and she texts me out of nowhere and asks if I need a snack and she brings me this hot sandwich to the library we eat it then she leaves. She invited me to the Flyers game with her friend who is also in our class (HB and I went had a great time but got stuck sitting next to hb8. You're probably thinking ok dumbass pull the trigger, but here's the catch.

I really think her best friend, who is still hot but I want the other girl, is in to me and I'm trying to figure out how to play my hand without losing them both. I think the best friend lives in the shadow of the hotter one and sees me negging hb9 and doing false disqualifiers and basically wants a guy she thinks her hotter friend cant have. I'm pretty sure the 9 would get down but at times I feel like she might be trying to push me off on her friend because the 8 is in to me. How do I play this hand? Open to any and all suggestions...

Your in a perfect situation. Decide for yourself who is your target and who the obstacle. In this case the obstacle actually will help you.

How? JEALOUSSY.

Go a bit for the other chick, flirt a bit, have some DHV stories and stuff... negg your target.

HOWEVER. Normally this is game for the first 0-5 minutes.. so be carefull not to go over the top.

Your target might get jealouss since this other girl is showing interest and showing it back. Now isolate your target.



Go do something and invite her. Not date her 1:1... just have something to do and invite her along. Do some comfort building and then... I'd def just have a try at her if she's showing enough IOI's and interest.

So far I think your safe. She showed a LOT of interests.... just be sure there's sexual tention. Make sure your NOT in the ljbf-zone...


Hope this helps a bit. I think its for you WAY easier to judge... but as far as I could understand I'd take advantage of this situation!

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Thanks man this definitely helps. I'll keep you guys posted.

Yeah def wanna hear how this works out.

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So I went out for a drink for HB 8s 21st and was getting zero IOIs from HB8 and tons of IOIs from HB9. We went to a bar where I used to work so I knew a ton of people which was a great DHV for me. Basically spent two hours building rapport and DHVing. HB9 asked me to come out with them again tomorrow night because she'll actually be drinking (finals week is over) so I'll keep you guys posted. It seems like things are going great but I still gotta run game because she seems like the type of girl that as soon as she knows she can have you she loses interest.

I am that girl too. As soon as I know I have someone wrapped around my finger, I get bored and move on. I (like so many other girls) just love the chase of knowing how hot we are and whether we can get this guy or not. BUT if there is more feelings there, then it will last. It happened with my boyfriend - he wanted me more than I wanted him at the beginning and then once I thought I had him, I saw him with another girl which made me so jealous! But I then fell for him hard and we have been together for a long time now. I agree with you - my boyfriend continues to run stealth game on me to keep me interested. Good luck!

So I went out with the two girls and was getting ZERO IOIs from HB9. I was kino escalating very well but still nothing. We went to another bar where we met up with this other guy that I knew she had hooked up with before so I AMOGed the shit out of him. He eventually left but HB9 was still showing ZERO IOIs. She is so hot and cold it's starting to piss me off. We met up with some more of their friends another HB8 and an HB7. I ended up taking home the new HB8 we had just met with and slept with her (a lot of fun, 2 time all american diver, very flexible!) but I pretty much screwed myself since I slept with a girl from HB9s inner circle. However, HB9 is so into herself I might have an outside chance but I think this is going to be some long term gaming.