SHIT!! i never thought id get one-itis, ever. in these last six or so weeks, ive been with quite a few girls (not all HB, but most). im seeing three girls, kinda like relationships but they dont know about each other, and two of them id break up with right now but the other i cant get out of my head ffs.

we get on really well and out of all of them i see her the most (2, 3 times per week), but she doesnt always reply to my texts and it stresses me out. we're supposed to be meeting up on saturday and i text her yesturday to arrange something but she hasnt got back, its been like 48hours. what can i do? should i text her again or phone her tomoz? should i just forget about her and wait untill she texts me? (id struggle to do that mind).

ive been with other girls while seeing her but, i cant just forget about her even though i want to. please help me, i wanna see her but i dont wanna see her so offer advice both ways thanks.

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It's only Wednesday. I'd give her til Friday before I'd text her again. Text her now and you might come across as needy. She might even be purposely waiting to reply to test your neediness.

p.s. I'm still an AFC so take my advice with a grain of salt

cheers, yeh fuck her she can text me ini (hopefully)

the thing is that she used to text me back straight away but these last two weeks she hasnt even bothered sometimes.

i came to the conclusion last night that she is seeing someone else. anyone think this could be true?

anyone been in this situation or similar before?

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'You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.'

are you having sex with her?

well i was, but now she can go fuck herself coz she hasnt got back to me so fuck it

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'You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.'

Its impossible to say where you went 'wrong' without knowing your interactions with her. I believe this has everything to do with it and your one-itis has been shining through. ie. you came across as needy without even knowing it. Do you think this is possible? or have you been watching your actions closely and in keeping your emotions in tact.

i got with her on a night out and spent the next day with her. then i saw her about a week later and we carried on going out every few days.

the second or third time i met her she said shes not looking for a relationship as she's doing a masters degree, but we were just having abit of fun and i was taking the realtionship more serious and maybe it scared her away. or maybe she didnt know i was seeing other girls and found out, i have got some texts on my phone so.

or well i never see her in uni as she's in a seperate school to me, if i do happen to bump into her im just going to ignore her.

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'You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.'

mate, this is bullshit.....dont ever believe it again! if she is THAT into you, she WILL want to be exclusive. Its in our blood to want that, even for the player of all players!

All these 'i have too much going on in my life right now', 'i want to be single for while', 'my grandfather died recently' etc etc.....BULL SHIT. Think about the way you feel about her now...if you were doing your Masters...you would still want her to be with you and only you right? (ie. exclusivity)...exactly.

I would just play it cool, hang back and hope for the best. Theres not much more you can do...any effort from your side is going to look needy because of the way that things currently stand.

yeh ur right mate i would want to be with her.

i am just gonna hang back and if she does text me, i aint texting back straight away, maybe a day or two later.

cheers pal

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'You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.'