So I tried sarging a HB9 i met the other night however she threw me off my normal MM game.

she told me hows shes been hurt by guys in the past, and when she told me what she does for a living, she explained how she gives up her full time to look after her ill father.

I really dont even know how conversation got onto these topics, as I never ask about either, but it instantly threw my off my game plan.

I felt like, i didnt want to neg her or do anything along the DHV lines. i just felt sorry for her :S

how do I go about a girl like this... Or is she just best left alone if its a tough time for her??

I think next time ill just show her a really fun time, so she can try forget about all of that for a while.

What would my fellow PUA's do? any tips from similar situations?

Exactly this.

I dont know if you know anything about NLP (neurolinguistic programming) but it could be very helpful in this situation.

Just show her a really good time and make SURE (by nlp or just regular conversation) that she realizes that everything is better and more fun when you're around, that you make her feel better even though she's having a rough time in her life. Make her connect the dots between forgetting her trouble and [/i]you.

But DONT become the guy that will listen to her depressing stories and help her out with it on an emotional level. Avoid those subjects and steer away from them when she brings them up (subtly change the subject).

Best of luck bro let us know how it goes,

Chillburg

I repeat.. DO NOT !!!

it's not good for you and not good for her

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