Hi,

Long story short. I met some girl at friend gathering over the summer.
I invited her over a coffee, she said sure. But because she was living to school nothing worked out. I talk to her over the phone and I said "hey, you bailed out on me, you owe me coffee when you coming back"
Not she graduating from school at the end of December.

What should I do?
How to spark the attraction again and invite her for coffee?
I have chit chatted with her once over facebook but this is about it.

Should I call her or send her a facebook msg? and if calling so any cool ideas or suggestion how to present it when I call her?

like "hey how is it going? I hope you did not forget about my coffee, because last girl mystically disappeared and she owed an just a espresso shot"

or something along these line?!


Thanks!

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Dude ya gotta lay off on the coffee--ask her out--but to something else than coffee--reason being she knows your interested but the coffee invites are gonna convince her that you have a hidden agenda wherby your pretending to just be friends but intend something else and you are doing it in a sneaky backdoor way.

coffee invites and tea/coffee should only be used--in IMO and from experience--if it is a spur of the moment meeting by accident and a coffee house is in the vacinity--dont call her up or email her inviting her for coffee--ask her to go out for a couple of beers or a film or a ball game or even the circus or bungy jumping---dont let her categorise you as Coffee Man

Valid!

but how should I present it in a cocky+funny way?

What would you say if you were in my shoes?

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You will miss 100% of the shots you never take!

thats my failing i dont know--from past experience,mistakes and f-ups im almost an expert on what not to do--its when it comes to what to do in a positive way that im unsure about