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Some people are naturally charismatic of which I am one of them.
So you have read the book the 'Art of Seduction', you will also find which type you are. Build up and improve the type you already are. Once you have done that then start adding other types into your mix (charisma being one of them).
Charismatic people are by very nature, confidence people. And people around them know this and want to be around this kind of person.
Rule number 1 of being charismatic...NEVER talk about anything or anyone in a negative light. This may even include negging. Don't do it.
Rule number 2, have fun at whatever you do. If you are not having fun, then make it look like you are having fun.
Rule number 3, laugh and smile often to everyone and everything.
Rule number 4, thank people when thanks is deserved. I send Christmas cards to people who have invited me to their parties, etc...Trust me this goes a long way and people remember this.
If you do these things, you will eventually become a charismatic person and people will want to be around you. Overall, it will make you a more confident and a better person.
Good Luck,
J-Dub
Charisma (Greek "kharisma," meaning "gift," "of/from/favored by God/the divine") is a trait found in persons whose personalities are characterized by a personal charm and magnetism (attractiveness), along with innate and powerfully sophisticated abilities of interpersonal communication and persuasion. One who is charismatic is said to be capable of using their personal being, rather than just speech or logic alone, to interface with other human beings in a personal and direct manner, and effectively communicate an argument or concept to them.
Usually charisma is taken as something that is " born" or genetic ( If you study leadership in business world as your major you will notice this ). Its something that is a part of your persona. Since your persona is something that has been molted due to those social factors ( for example your parents/ environmental surroundings) and inherited factors ( such as your brains capasity ) its pretty hard to change those traits which you allready embrace through the time you have lived since the present.
So basically the only way you can change those factors is to become more extravert ( more open and learn how to show the best you ). Being characteristic aint just smiling and laughing. Being characteristic is being YOU and not some sales man. For example Hitler, Napoleon, Julius Caesar etc. where characteristic persons because they were all
strong unique persons. Dont force yourself into something you are not but instead try to learn to show those best traits you behold in yourself.
Thats the key, not some simple rules!
Now, the anwser to the question about how you can implement this task is a another story.
First you need to figure about your personal strenghts and than make yourself more extrovert so you can reflect those traits better. The way to this could be for example making more inner exploreing and than trying to socialize more and bring out those qualities of yours to open air.
[ Johnny B ]
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