Hi,
I work at the same company as this perfect 9. I recently got out of a relationship and I met this 9 while i was in this relationship.
the 9 talks to me about scoring other guys openly even after she found out I broke it off with my GF. (This must be negative?)
She laughs at most of my jokes and when i tease her. She is incredibly affectionate when we are out drinking.
We have a mutual friend who I told how attractive I find this girl and I am sure he has told her, to counter act this i attempt to send mixed signals.
I don't message her first at work, ever, I wait for her to message me.
When she slept at my flat one night, i said I was going to sleep in the other room, she insisted I sleep with her (made her promise she wouldnt spoon me)
recently she came out with me alone. on the dance floor I tried to mini date to close, she said she is going to stay on the dance floor rather... (I took this as a complete IOD and got over it)
I have been out only twice with this 9.
How do I avoid the friend zone?
How do I show I am interested without ruining my chances? - Maybe I should tell her I used to think she was really cute but I don't think she is my type?
Should I blow her off when she tries to make plans?
Do I talk about other girls to her?
Should I try sarge girls when she is out with me?
The fact that I work with the girl makes it hard for me to close and adds that extra pressure.
I don't want to date this girl, I just want to close her.
Any advice is much appreciated
CHAT