any thoughts on this routine in a club:

You walk up to the girl you want to meet and you say, "May I borrow a pencil?". Usually every girl has a pencil
or a pen. If she does not, or if she ignores you then ask the bartender for a pencil. If the bartender does not have a
pen or pencil, always have one on you and walk up to some one and pretend you borrowed it.
Your only intention is to get a pen or pencil with her attention on it. Now go back to your table and don't pay the
slightest attention to her. For the moment, she will be aware that you're in the room. You write a short note to her.
I assume you can use a small piece of notebook paper or even a napkin. Carry one of those small spiral notebooks
around.
This should become a habit, how are you going to write down all the phone numbers of women you meet if you
don't have some paper?
Write something like the following:
Did you know that I have been sitting here wondering how I could meet you? If you have any suggestions as to
how I could meet you without appearing bold, or if I should even try to meet you, please check one of the below.
Yes... No... Go to hell... try this... Signed...

Girls would rather prefer that you come off as bold since it shows confidence. Your idea would make you look like that you're too scared to just walk up to the girl and start talking.


People now have cellphones you don't need paper anymore to archive a phone number.

to be honest, I dont think any girl would carry a pen or pencil in the nightclubs i go to.

and i get the girl to write their numbers straight into my cellphone!

i think the idea would work awesome in more of a classroom type situation where u have to be quiet, because the lecturer is talking.