I got a day two from direct street game and went to a quiet bar and we sat on a coach and were next to each other.

Usually it would have been easy to chat to the girl for a bit and escalate as I have done in the past even with oriental girls who can be more closed off or shy at times.

This girl was Chinese, she had her arms and legs crossed most of the time but was pleasant and playful and I did get her to talk quite a bit but I still had to do most of the talking and she wouldn't engage as much as most girls.

It was very difficult to kino escalate or move closer as she kept a distance apart and was closed off the whole time, she would not even kiss me on the cheek at the end of the date (when I playfully said kiss goodbye and pointed to my cheek and said dont try and kiss me on the lips) and I just got a hug.

I was playful with her and was not the nice guy but did build some comfort, I was still cool and funny like I usually am and did not react to her being stand offish which I thought was a shit test at first but it carried on the whole time. I did playfully push her and touch her arm and shoulders non sexually but she did not touch me back at all and it would have been awkward for me to get closer and try and continue the kino escalation to a k close like I had done in the past with more recieptive girls.

This is fairly rare for me but not the first time it has happened, anyone else had it happen before and deal with it effectively or have any good suggestions?

I couldn't help but feel I failed somehow at the end and am struggling to see what I could learn from this so it wasn't a complete waste of time. Frustrating as it was a perfect set up and would have been great with a more receptive girl.

It sounded like you done most things right from what you said however was your attitude similar to what it was in your day game? If you acted different the 2nd time you met it might not have come across so genuine?

Otherwise it may just be that someone else came in the picture or she is having problems. Its hard to tell from this end but dont let it get to you too much.