| I went out to dinner with a female friend of mine. The waitress that served us was gorgeous and charming. The table next to us was a group of drunk guys who just came from the office. They were all flirting with the waitress and making passes and getting shut down. Eventually they left. It was quiet for a bit.
After our meal my friend went to the restroom and I struck up a conversation with our waitress who was clearing the table that had belonged to the drunk guys next to us. She looked familiar and I thought she was someone that went to a University nearby. She said she didn't go there, but has two friends that go to the university that look just like her (one of them has the same first name as her) and she gets asked by customers if she's them a lot. I thought that was kind of unusual, but it did peak my interest. She then told me she was studying at a college nearby. I asked her what she studied, introduced myself, we shook hands and she asked what I did and if I liked it and if it was busy this time of year etc...
My friend came back we paid our bills. I introduced my friend to our waitress then I asked our waitress if she wanted to keep in touch. She said sure. I handed her a business card that someone else had given me and told her to write her number on the back.
I realized as I handed her the card my hand was shaking a bit. This waitress whose name I won't say was easily one of the prettiest women I have ever seen. She took the card began writing her info, but then half way through she said, "I have to tell you that I have a boyfriend. Just so you know." I said, "Oh that's cool." She continued writing down her name and number and handed me the card. I said 'it was nice meeting you' and left with my friend.
I'm not sure why she gave me her number if she has a boyfriend, or if it's even a real number. I'd love to take this girl out, but it seems kind of unlikely with the boyfriend in the picture. I could settle for sex with her, but again unlikely, plus I'd feel guilty if she had a boyfriend and I was the other guy. The only good things I can see from coming from this are
1) practice asking out beautiful women.
2) Using her to meet other women. She has other pretty friends that I could possibly meet through her, which is kind of cool. Plus I think just having someone beautiful like her with me when I go out will make asking out other beautiful women easier, since they see me with someone pretty already (kind of like how I got her number).
I admit this is kind of a shallow entry, but attraction isn't a choice. If it was I'd probably be with the friend I came to the restaurant with. Ideally I'd love to get to know the girl who was our waitress. She's beautiful and I'd like to date her, but I think maybe I'm too insecure to date her. I'd probably end up pulling a Tiger Woods if I did. Okay that was a joke, but seriously women that look like her get hit on all day. You really have to have a babies arm holding an apple to feel 100% confident with someone like her.
I don't even know what to suggest we do if I ask her to hangout. Any ideas? Should I even bother with this girl? What should I do?
Note: I got her number on Friday. I haven't called or text her yet. Today is Monday.
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