Hey guys, I just had to get some things off my chest.
I'm a junior in college, and I have only kissed one girl in my whole life. I always thought that college would involve a lot of hook ups, but that hasn't been my reality. And I can's seem to figure out why.

I dunno, I feel like I get IOI's during the day, but whenever I go to a party or a bar, the IOI's just stop, and I rarely see Approach Invitations. I don't see them anymore. I make approaches, but what always seems to happen is that I (to use a Tyler Durden term) pump up the girl's buying temperature and she always ends up going home with someone else.

I don't get it. I feel like I'm not bad looking, I dress well, and I can be charming (I have a lot of attractive female friends, friends being the key word), but I feel like the fact that I am of Indian descent (but born and raised in the US) is DLV'ing me in many girl's eyes.

It's just kinda annoying 'cause I feel that everyone else but me is hooking up in college and I'm just missing out. Any thoughts would help.

Thanks.

First off, college is all about social cirlce gaming. My best results in college have come from being at houses that I know the owners at. When the owners of a sick house, who are throwing a sick party, are the ones introducing you to girls, it is a DHV. Plus, LMR and general bitchyness are way less at parties. Do not blame your indian descent--that is an excuse. In college: use less routines, be more c/f--just have fun and the girls will flock to you.

sorr about the typos--I am drunk. (it is finals week--didn't go out, just drank with some friends)

First off, college is all about social cirlce gaming. My best results in college have come from being at houses that I know the owners at. When the owners of a sick house, who are throwing a sick party, are the ones introducing you to girls, it is a DHV. Plus, LMR and general bitchyness are way less at parties. Do not blame your indian descent--that is an excuse. In college: use less routines, be more c/f--just have fun and the girls will flock to you.

sorr about the typos--I am drunk. (it is finals week--didn't go out, just drank with some friends)

As Matt already said, college-game is all about social circles.

Though, this does not seem to be the problem for you, as you already said you have some beautifull girl friends. This already puts you in a place many college guys would die for.

Now it still seems you are getting stuck somewhere. You describe that you are already sexually vibing with girls, but they always seem to end up with another guy or go to bed by themselves.

I think the most important thing for you is to make choices. At a certain point in the night you have to decide upon a girl you want to fuck. Once you decided, you go for her. Give her attention, and build up a flow with her.

What I mean by flowing with a girl, is going all over the party with her. Get drinks, laugh at people playing beer pong, dance on the balcony, get some more beers.. While doing this, lead, be confident. You want her to follow you, but be not afraid to follow her aswell. Now you are creating a vibe where you and her having a very fun time, now you need to make it happen

Now this is something I am still trying to reconstruct from my own hookups/one-night-stands of the past year. Basically, I have broken down what I have done into two categories:

Direct: At the end of the night you invite her over to your room, or suggest going to her room. Directness can go to extreme and still work if there is a good combination of flow, attraction and beer involved. I even went as far as asking her directly, even before I kissed her, if she was up for having sex. Now, she did not say yes to this, but we did went to my room and fuck. Haha.

It just happened:You are flowing with a girl, and somehow you end up with her one-on-one and it starts happening. Ideally this is in your room, as sex can/will follow the makeout. Now this is something I am also trying to perfect, because if you master 'making it happen' you are a college king.


What is most important is that you want to flow with her, and then isolate!

Let me know how everything works out man!

Enjoy college life, it is awesome