I met this girl and rang her up to set a date and was playful with her on the phone, I set up a date for three days in advance, she texts me the day before to say that she cannot make it because her car had to go to the garage. I live in a different town to her about 20 minutes away. I said for her to take the train, she does not respond and then a few days later says she does not do trains. I ask her if she is afraid of flying too playfully and she said she is okay with that just doesn't do trains. I used a roleplay on her also and said we are so divorced now because of this.

She texts me to say she is in my town a few days later and I had better not be there with a tongue poking out gesture. I re-framed it and said I cannot come because I am too busy. Then she says 'No I said I hoped you weren't around as I was in your town shopping and we are divorced because you a maile slut'. I created a jeaousy plotline so it wouldn't like she was the only girl in my life, when she asked once what I had been up to at the weekend said I had a few naughty stories to share but not until she bought me a drink.

I left a couple of days to respond and did not want to keep at playful as she was not taking me seriously and using my roleplay against me so thought I would shift into something more serious. I said 'If you did not want me to be there then why tell me you were there you are crazy :p don't text me back until you grow up though'. She would have to do the chasing if she wants another chance for a date as otherwise I would look too needy.

Then she says 'It's not my fault that you cannot take a joke' and then it all escalates really badly from here into a text war which isn't fun. I text her and say 'she is a game player' and she says she does not play games and I text 'not even monopoly?'. She does not respond until the next day and starts accusing me of being 'overly judgment and to stop texting her' and I reply with 'I only text you when I am bored'. Then she replies 'I do not care I don't even know you'. Then I say 'I am going to see some other women who are better looking and more fun than you'.

Thought that would put her in her place she isn't even that hot about a 6 WTF is she being so bitchy for she has nothing to be arrogant about that is what I felt like saying too. Then she goes on to text 'Omg I don't care! I am sure you will find lots of girls and use your wrong judgements do me a favour and lighten up and don't text me again thanks!'. I knew that was it but who cares plenty more and was just trying stuff out so said 'Don't text me again then you heffer'. As if I did not reply to that it would make me look like a tool for doing as she says and being scared.

Thankfully most girls I have met are not like this and are actually cool to talk to and don't flip all of a sudden like this nut. I wander why it was so bad I know I was overly harsh towards the end but felt like she deserved it. Plus it was no loss as I have other girls to see who are hotter and nicer.

I was just trying to be less playful and more serious to see what would happen and it seemed pretty negative in this instance maybe this girl is a schitzo or I did something wrong or a bit of both, what do you think?

Your mistake was texting her: 'If you did not want me to be there then why tell me you were there you are crazy :p don't text me back until you grow up though'. The problem with text game is that jokes can be taken the wrong way because all she's reading is the text; in real life jokes are more easily seen as jokes because she can see you smiling and laughing.

I think after she texted you 'It's not my fault that you cannot take a joke' you should have texted her saying what you said about growing up was a joke itself and then took it from there.



Phoenix - "Women want sex as much as men, they're just generally less forward about it."

You are not plowing this chick yet because you're inducing absolutely no lust in her dirty little mind. You're entertaining her, sure, but we all know about how most these inept comediants have a crappy love life anyway. You were making her chase you (untill you clinge'd it all up by saying 'if you don't want me to be here etc'. This is whining, and it doesn't look good on you), which is still better then you chasing her, but no LUST is being created.