I wanted to ask you guys for some feedback on situation with a certain woman in my life.
First some background. I'm in college and I met this girl at the end of last year. We hit it off great and the chemistry was perfect, then we each went home for the summer and sort of lost touch. In the meantime she started dating someone. I've been following these boards passively for about 10 months now (sort of apprehensive about posting) , prior to that I had read the mystery method and magic bullets, so I'm somewhat informed on seduction techniques.
Now to the point: I tend to do well with women, thanks to improving my game with as much literature on the subject as I can. That being said, I love this girl, and hesitate to call it oneitis. I think about her all the time and we were almost involved at the end of last year after we had began to hookup, but then finals put us on hold, and then by the time summer rolled around I hadn't given her much thought due to work and my schedule. Now though we hangout often and are truly great friends, but I'm all about this girl, (which I do not share with her except indirectly or sarcastically, which may be the reason she is still eager to spend time with me)

Now to the present: Yesterday night, she asked if I could come over, with no mention of what we would be doing. She then informed me that things were getting very serious with her boyfriend (who I've only met a few times) and that she wants me to consider other options. There is sexual tension between us even more so lately, than before, but she said if things didn't work out with this guy that she would be crushed, so I can tell she's deeply invested into him. At the same time she was hesitant to tell me we were basically finished and I don't know if I'm mistaking that for second thoughts, or just her being a good friend and feeling bad because she subconsciously knows how I feel.

I'm sorry for writing such a novel guys, but I figured any input on the subject could help more than it hurt, even it was something I wasn't ready or wanted to hear.

Any help would be greatly appreciated

-Mike

Disappearing for a while might help you. If you two share such a deep connection, she will miss you. You can then (after a month or what not) invite her for coffee of what not and re-start attraction from there on.

Or you could just forget about her.

Keep at it man you can do it just plow through and be strong.

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