Hi guys, I'm quite new to this pick up game and i was wondering if i don't go around clubs to get the 10's or 8's and i do a street pick up among a group of friends say a 6.5, and i neg her and she ignores me.
For example, one of Mystery's lines i read from The Game - .... I can't talk to you anymore.

What if she goes ok bye. What am i supposed to do? And many times negs only work with the 10's because they are used to getting so much attention. How about people of lower scale?

And also, what if i like this girl and she knows I like her? If she avoids me or if she thinks that what i am trying to do is weird since she would know what i am trying to do if i isolate her and all.

Help please! I'm new to the game and quite lost! Thanks!

Hey man.

I will help you out with this one. First off, you ask questions about sarging a girl you already know. That is not what the game was developed for. Sure, it can be done but you need a quite advanced level of game before you do it. The rules are different, negs and routines etc does not work as well with people you know.

Second thing, do not use negs unless you have to. If she ignores you you have not built enough attraction yet. And a neg is not an insult, see it as a false disqualification.

Third, the Mystery line is not a neg it is part of the qualification you do in A3. It is a release, you give her value and then release the tension. Look it up in the game or in the venusian arts.

Forth, welcome to the game!

Ezo

Thanks! I don't really know her, i just know she exist and she knows i exist, i haven't had the chance to really go up to her yet. Probably what you would call an AFC. Only had 1 chance before when a group of my friends stopped to chat with hers. I think it can still be considered as one from the start since she probably only knows that I more or less have a liking towards her.

The only thing is when she calls me out on liking her, should i say- You're pretty but totally not my type/You're my type, too bad i'm gay, if not you'd be so mine.


So i should merely start off with first generating attraction, eg opening her group say with an opinion opener. Ignore her until she shows IOIs or try to budge into the convo (here i neg her). But what if she does not even bother?
Anyways after i neg her, if i had a chance to, i try and isolate her, and that is when i qualify her?

Sorry for these AFC questions!!

Ok, so I never really sarge when I am with my AFC friends... Because some of the stuff you do or say can be frightening to the AFC mind.

Anyways, you have not actually talked to her, you have not actually had any contact. This kind of game is completely different from club or bar game. You dont need negs (I assume you are in school) or routines to sarge in your school/workplace. It could be useful but unless it is a social gathering it comes off as wierd to run the kind of game you do in a party. In a party you are supposed to talk about whatever for the sole purpose of talking and socializing. You are in a different situation.

Forget about negs and routines for now. And dont shit where you eat. Gaming where your social circle hangs and gaming people you will see almost every day is not a good idea.

Still if you wanna try, go ahead. Just talk to her. So she might understand that you are interested, sure why else would you talk to her? Why bother negging or hiding it. If it is out then it is out.

Her: You like me.
PUA: Is that a crime.
PUA: I havent made up my mind yet, I dont even know you.
PUA: You are a likable person.
PUA: I was but now... I dont know.

Just be the cool guy. Be confident and dont take it personally if you should fail...

Ezo

I like that reply. Witty. Thanks so much!