Alright so, trying to set up a get together with this chick I've made out with a few times when out. She's real interested when out, makes alot of contact when we're out of contact, but when setting up extra dates it never seems to be a case of:

Me: lets do x
Her: yeah ok

So here's how it went down. We both knew she was planning on being in a place we had met up before recently, but she revealed tonight one of her friends isnt going:

S says:
*why does it matter so much that she goes?
J says:
*cos I'm not from ur area, i get odd looks when im not with someone from there, and my other friend isnt from there either
S says:
*ah I see
*well in that case
*you can meet me in it. Now you have to go. Done
J says:
*hahaha
S says:
*you're laughing..
J says:
*nono. im just laughin at u sortin my social life for me!
S says:
*also whos your friend not from here that you'll be with? Is this a girldate I've walked into the middle of? haha
J says:
*yes its my best friend.. she home from uni tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!! eeeeeeeeeeeeek
* cant wait!!!

After this the convo moved onto the people that act odd with her when she's here, we spoke a bit about that.

Didn't look good imo from here, later in the convo:

S says:
*anyway, have I convinced you its safe yet.
*also I'll not get jealous if you and your friend wanna hold hands or whatever, I know thats what happens on dates. I'm cool with it
J says:
*hummmm maybe!!
*we'll see! haha
*oh, youve met her before btw from that time in the bar
S says:
*oh the girl that was sick?
J says:
*yes.. thats her!
*shes fab!
S says:
*she knows how to party
*she better go
J says:
*oh she is!
S says:
*oh really?
*you said maybe a minute ago, bullshitter!
J says:
*well its a maybe if im goin..
*haha
S says:
*hmm
J says:
Haha

Here the convo moved onto her working tomorrow. She works in a grocery store. I've seen her in there a few times when she's been on shift. We have a few in jokes regarding it, things like people making boring chit chat about the weather and the fact the one time I saw her in there I was buying cookies (they're great, don't judge me).

So this is how the convo ended:

J says:
*well anyways [pet name] I have to go... i have an early start and a longggg day!!
S says:
*try not to lose your temper with the weather talkers!
J says:
*humm i'll try not to! thou if ur in, u best not talk about it!
S says:
*please, I'm more exciting than that!
J says:
*haha! who said!?
*ONLY KIDDING
S says:
*Ha! Enjoy the girldate :-O
J says:
*yes.. well i'll keep u posted!
*i'll save u some cookies 2moro!
*(see, i listen)
*:D xx
S says:
*impressed :-O
*xx
J says:
*ninight. chat 2 u later [pet name here]
*xx

You'll see there I typed '[pet name]' as this is where she used one, I didnt include it as it's quite unique haha. Anyway, you'll see there I said 'enjoy the girldate' (which isnt until a few days from now) referring to the meet up I had suggested in the convo earlier and didn't feel went well, she responded by saying she'd keep me posted, then it seems was trying to qualify herself right after it.

I'm getting a bit tired of this chick, as this stage seems like hassle and is never easy. Also I caught a glimpse of a convo between her and a friend today where she said she might bring mistletoe out next week when they go out as she hasnt pulled (i.e kissed someone) in so long - Weird for a few reasons, main one being her and I made out last sunday, altho the friend she was saying this to wasnt present for that.

I'm not that bothered, as I made out with another girl 2 days ago and have made out with others since I tried to start gaming her, it's all just making me wonder if I'm failing to be taken as seriously as I want.

Advice desired!