So whenever the kissing gets to be mostly about tongue action, I feel a bit lost...

What the hell am I supposed to be doing with my tongue?

wanna know the best advice......copy her!

Kisses to girls can mean alot or not very much. When I kisss a girl I wait for them to use tongue, see what they do and copy.

Things to avoid:

- The lizard, flicking your tongue in a out of the mouth
- The washing machines, circling you tongue round and round in her mouth

Things I have found good:

- Grabbing the others tongue in your teeth and slowly letting go-
- Suck on there bottom or top lip

dont suck on the lips too long or hard though cus you will destroy her lips otherwise (i did this a few times until a girl told me something like "i really like the passionate way you kiss but my lip was black and blue this morning")

Thanks for the replies.

Ya I mean I basically just follow when she introduces the tongue. I am fine with the lips and I can get her worked up well by doing things with her lips, my hands and body while I am kissing her, but when it goes to tongue, I just get lost. I mean I follow, but I don't think there looking for me to follow, sure follow at first, but then I need to take the lead... I just don't know where I am supposed to go with the whole tongue thing, I know what not to do, but not what to do. I just come off tentative with it I guess and am not able to keep the passion I had them worked up on when I was kissing the lips.

hence the term practice makes perfect...ive dont my share...when i first started i had no idea what to do...i didnt tlak to anyone really about it...jsut went with whatever felt right...dont be shy to even throw in how was that...or even ask questions...why not learn from the source then just asking guys how to make out since its kind of a "handon" thing dont ya think?...oh and ps try some bottom lip biting a bit...works wonders if used correctly

Good Luck, F|y

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Ya I am good with the lips, I understand the biting/sucking/light kisses w/e just never got the hang of the point of the tongue.

I get worked up kissing on the lips, it feels good. But I don't really enjoy kissing when the tongue gets involved, or at least I havn't figured out how to do it right in order to make it feel good, I have never got the point. So I understand practice makes perfect, I am just looking for what is the general idea with good tongue kissing?

I used to think that being a band geek when I was in school was a bad thing but after learning what it could do for my personal life I looked at it in a new light. I'm a trumpet player and because I use my "kissing muscles" to make a living now, the ladies love it.

Like everyone has said before, you're ultimately going to need to practice and figure out what your own style is. With some practice and some exercises you'll be able to do more than just kiss well.

Try holding a pencil/pen in your lips (don't use your teeth) and try to hold it up parallel with the floor for as long as you can. Do a few reps of these a day and you'll notice a difference and so will she.

As far as your tongue goes, don't be too aggressive by jamming it down her throat or licking the back of her teeth. Try swirling your tongue with hers in a circular motion and if she follows then you can match paces. Don't go too fast! And don't always do this move. Tease her!!!!!! She will appreciate it, trust me

For the tongue, just match what the girl is doing. If she wants to jam her tongue down your throat she will. If she doesn't she wont. Only give as much tongue as she is doing.

Like licking an icecream, A very tasty icecream, you don't want to gob it down but rather enjoy every lick