Well, there is this girl I like. She has been dating this other guy for a year and plans on getting married to him. Well, she likes me to. She hates it when other guys flirt with her however, when I flirt with her, she likes it. She also flirts back with me.

She said that she wants me to sneak in her room this weekend and also wants to "wrestle" with me.

I looked on her boyfriend's myspace and I saw his status, it said something like: "thinking... confused....curious......scared to get hurt....."

Two days later, I saw where it said: "A little agitated and annoyed."

So I know I'm winning her over so far however, I want to be her boyfriend and get this other guy out of the picture completely.

I know her boyfriend went to California and is coming back in two more weeks.

What should I do to win her over completely?

I want to be her boyfriend before he gets back.

Thanks in advance!

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Update:

We talked about a few hours ago. She said hey to me first and she was wondering what I was doing and I said "homework and thinking about you." She didn't reply to that.

I think she is sending mixed signals.

Would this be a good idea IF THIS WERE TO HAPPEN:

Her current bf would contact me and tell me to leave her alone. I would say that I spend every second I can with her and give her what she wants and I constantly call her a lot! Maybe if you did this, she wouldn't be wanting me.

This would trick him into being clingy. He would try to talk to her 24/7 and she will eventually get tired of him and they would break up.

Would that be a good idea?

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whats up dude,

tough situation your in all i know for sure is your idea bout telling the bf your giving his girl all this attention won't really work in your favor if anything it'll bring them closer together cuz she'll be mad at for you for making her bf think there's something going on between you two and if your hoping that maybe he'll break up with her because of that he won't, whatever you were doing before seemed to be working i'd just focus on spending more time with her chill with her as much as possible work your game thats the only you'll get her away from this other guy otherwise you'll just be stuck in the friend zone, whatever you decide best of luck

I would suggest flirting with some other girls while you're around this girl in order to make her realise that she's not the only girl in your life and that you have other options available. Humans are jealous by nature, whether its at work or in a social situation or somewhere else.

At the same time do plenty of kino on her. This will make her feel even more comfortable around you and may even make her want you (if she didn't want you in the first place).

In terms of the boyfriend, just ignore him. He's not part of the equation in my opinion. Its you + her = ? - this other guy doesn't matter in your relationship with this girl. If she plans on getting married to him, then the fact she's flirting back with you may be a signal that subconsciously she's not happy with this guy.


Phoenix - "Women want sex as much as men, they're just generally less forward about it."

I'm not trying to make him break up with her. I want HER TO BREAK UP WITH HIM. There really is something going on. He probably already suspects something is going on because he is worried about losing her. I'm not going to say anything unless he says something to me first. If he gets TOO clingy, she might eventually get tired of him and break up with him.

However, it might be better to chill with her and treat it as if we are already dating and forget her current bf exist for now.

Thanks for your post!

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This is true, that will make her jealous however, this could be sort of risky.

I know that she likes me and sort of wants me but I want her to REALLY want me. We don't really get to see each other much because of school. I want to see her this weekend but I don't know if I will be able to or not.

Current BF + Worried about losing her since she started talking to me again after a few years = BIG CHANCE for me! So far, things are going good for me but I don't want to screw this up.

Do you guys thing that it would be a good idea to treat her as if we are dating?

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