I have had this kinds open relationship with this girl for a while. I now have started talking to her friend and i am getting to really like her. how can i let the other girl down. I just feel really bad as i was the first guy she slept with.

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Young_PUA

So, you have an OPEN relationship with this girl huh? It doesn't sound that open...

Well, here is my take...

First, if this new girl you dig is friends with the other...it may never happen.

How good friends are they? If they are really good friends, their loyalty may prevent you from getting into the other girls pants. So if that is the case then try to get them into a threesome. IF YOU CAN SWING IT!!! If not, don't even mention it. Sexually the girl is inexperienced, so she may be open to new experiences (but from my experience girls tend to want this 3some exeperience with a girl they don't know very well, as it could hurt the relationship with their lady friend).

If they are more aquantenances than friends, you have a chance, but make sure the other girl is really interested in you otherwise you might lose both of them.

The problem is there WILL be girl drama no matter how much you sugar coat it.

So be prepared to be kicked to the curb sooner or later if you do decide to pursue her friend.

My suggestion, don't do it. Best case scenario, 3-some...Worst case scenario, you get kicked to the curb and lose ANY chance to be with either one of them.

Best,

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

There are two questions.

HB#1 = your current girl
HB#2 = your current girl's friend

1. How good of friends are they, as the previous poster mentioned. If they are only acquaintances, move on to the next step

2. Is HB#2 in to you? If so, and they are not best friends or anything (the reason you are on step 2 right now) Maybe throw a hint out there to her... " I am kind of "with" HB#1, but I think you are fucking awesome. Id love to find out if you are as interesting as you are cute/sexy/etc. , but what do we do about HB#1? If she's into you, HB#1 now becomes and issue for both of you - freeing you from guilt and accusation


I don't have any experiences with 3-somes (but hope to change that soon)

If you think there is a chance to make this happen, try the Dual-Induction massage routine. I tried to post a link, but was disallowed. Just do a google search, first link.

-ub