Hi Guys
There's this irish HB8 which has just joined our company, she's got a good personality and took over my job for 3 weeks whilst I was on holiday, and the day before I left I spent the whole day training her up for the job and having a coffee with her for an hour to get to know her and playing cocky funny and she seems cool. Now I'm back from hols, she's got a permenant job with us in a different office, which is good news, but The problem is her friend who works in my office is bad mouthing stuff about me to this hot HB8 and probably whilst I was on hols, which isn't true, and I feel will be difficult to convince otherwise, although I did have some friendly email banter with her the otherday. My question is, Can it be possible to get a girl, even if she likes you a little bit at first, but her friend keeps telling her not to go out with him? Is it worth pursuing her? Any Advice?

Do you know what stuff is being said anyway? It would help us offer some advice if we knew. My advice anyway is just continue with what your doing. If the girl is into you, which I presume she is considering the friendly email banter, then her friend shouldn't get in the way. Also get her away from the office.



Phoenix - "Women want sex as much as men, they're just generally less forward about it."

The fact that her friend is telling her to not go out with you is actually doing a lot more good for your chances than harm. Telling people they're not allowed to see one another is a GREAT way to get people to want each other even MORE.

Luckily her permenant position is now in a different office, but they do speak on the phone a fair bit. The kind of rumours she's spreading is, he'll just use you and he's slept with hookers e.t.c... Which just isn't true. This new HB8 is really friendly and I feel maybe something could happen if her friend wasn't ruining my game, and I would consider her as a potential girlfriend.

thanks guys for you replys so far, is there anybody who thinks this isn't worth pursuing? or should I spend more time trying to get a date with her and not worry about her friend?