Hello fellow puas and puas in training.

Recently I discovered that I joke around alot, many jokes i say are on my expense and many things i do make me seem like kinda stupid or a guy who just goofs around alot. I'm not even close to being an alpha male in the groups i'm in and that's not helpful in trying to get to women.

How can i try to change that? I want to be an alpha male, because alpha males are (wow don't know any other way to put it, hehe) alpha males are.... cooler, and more exotic, girls wan't to get their approval but trust me, girls don't try to get my approval, like my friends fx. they laugh at me, AT me, and say stuff like: wow you fail man hahaha. (Usually that's stuff i kind of did deliberately just to be funny)

Anyone got any advice??

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Hey man, I used to have the same problem. You can try a couple things:
If your friends are continuously making the jokes about you, try reversing it on them. Not saying shoot them down, but try to distribute the jokes more evenly so everyone in your group gets laughed at
If that doesn't work, then the problem may simply be the guys you hangout with. One of my old friends always used to make the jokes against me, and if I made a joke about him, he wouldn't laugh. He'd get a straight face and either tell me I'm not funny, or try to make another joke about me. I realized that it was b/c he wasn't comfortable being himself in public, so he had to make me look worse so he'd feel better.

Now I'm not even close to being a good PUA, but since I started hanging out with other people a lot more, my confidence is through the roof, and I'm somewhat of an alpha.

And lastly, stop making jokes on yourself just for a good laugh. You make yourself look foolish and it opens up so many opportunities for people to joke about you more.

Hope this helps

Thx man really appreciate it i'm gonna try that stuff and i've started reduce the goofing around

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Don't totally lose ya goofyness though. Gotta make sure the girl is having fun at the same time so she doesn't want to leave

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