Ok, I've been talking with this girl for a month and a half.
I've always acted bold, very c/f, negging, etc.
However, this is hard to explain, but the way I talk to her at the weekends is different from the way I talk to her at week.
At the weekends I show myself kinda desperate and needy, inviting her (she flakes/doesn't say anything about the invite, just answer the other part of the sms), at the week I'm bold, sometimes a jerk, sometimes cool but c/f, like this "hey, you must be feeling sad for not being lunching with the sexiest man of our college Very Happy".
She almost always engage and etc.

Ok, 2 weeks ago I cutted off all the contact with her. She came back to me with sms asking how I was, what was I doing, etc.
After that, we've been talking like 3 times a week.

Anyway, last wednesday I sent her a sms "I passed x city and I remembered you, so hi! Now get lost Smile.", which she replied saying all sort of things she's used to do on that city, like going to the beach, etc, which I answered "did I ask you something?". She answered "ok, i'm sorry*".

The thing is, the day after she lunched at my university and she was ANGRY, very very mad. I sent her a sms "hi! you must be feeling sad for not being lunching with the sexiest man of my university Smile."
She said nothing, but looked at me 2 times with an angry face.
Later on, I sent her another sms very c/f, which she replied telling me she was very angry at me because of what I said the day before, I was very rude at her, a jerk, said we were not matched for each other and if we had a relationship it would be a bad one. And said at the end "sometimes I don't know if I was made to have a nice time with you."

Ok, I answered kinda nicely, saying I was kidding with her, etc, etc, and I called her.
She picked up ans yelled I was very rude. I told her to stop being a little brat and that the next day, friday, we would talk personally.

We talked, she sent me a lot of IOIs (such as playing with her hair for the whole freakin' time she was with me), her feet and pointed towards me, smiling a lot, and she was very sexy, wearing make up for like the first time.

Ok, I told her something like "I'm dating 3 girls. 2 of them are fantastic, really beautiful and interesting, but they are kinda superficial. On the other hand, the other one isn't any better than the other 2, isn't top, isn't the most beautiful, but I'd rather be with her, because she's different... she is you."

Then she said "well, I have lots of guys. No, I'm kidding. Some time ago I met a boy, which I can't say if I like him or hate him, because sometimes I like him, but the other times, when I read his sms or I am with you, I hate him and I only want to punch him in the face. He's you".

After that, I said I had to go somewhere and she said "then I'm going with you".
She mocked me a lot, like I did to her.
I criticized some things in a c/f way and she replied "see? that's what I don't like about you!" in a funny way.
Later on, I invited her to lunch with me and she said maybe.
Then I said "ok, then we're going to lunch at a university where a friend of mine is studying." She got jealous and said she didn't want to be excluded, as in, she though I was dating the other girl. I told her she already had a bf, but "my" girl said no again. I was like "ok, whatever".

Sometime after we said goodbye.
Some seconds after I yelled "hey!", she turned to me smiling and playing with her hair, and I asked her "what would you do if someone kissed you?". She smiled and said that she would get mad.
Then I asked "and if I kissed you?".
She got a sad face and said "I'd be mad. That's this kind of things I don't like about you...".
I smiled and said goodbye again.

Half an hour later, she sent me a sms saying something like this "I freaked out when you asked that Mad I though our previous conversation made you understand I don't want to take advantage of you Mad".


Yesterday I invited her and acted kinda needy and c/f, and she flaked (said nothing, but answered other things).


So, I have a doubt: I know I'm having 2 different kinds of attitudes, needy and totally careless, but I can't figure it out if she's LJBFing me or not. What do you guys think of this?


I gotta admit, we don't talk too much. Just like 2/3 days a week and I'm not usually needy, more like c/f. But one thing I think I know, she may have a doubt if I'm the needy type or the jerk type. I kinda send mixed feelings.