There is this girl that works up in the office at the place I work. I never really had a chance to talk to this girl yet. I've seen her around the office and thought she was very attractive.

Later on I had a disscussion with her brother that I work with and learned that she just turned 25. (I just turned 21) And I think I heard someone say she just moved out of her parents and into an appartment of her own (can't confirm this). I just graduated highschool 2 years ago but still live with the family. But on the flip side I have a very good job and a nest egg i've built working at this job my dad set up for me 9 months ago.

Now I know most of you guys are going to say age doesn't matter but this is a predominantly male forum and everything comes from a guys prospective. Me personally I wouldn't care about the age diffrence but I'm really conserned what a female would think about this situation.

Any advice would be helpful if you care to share.

I dated older women, 1-2 yrs older.. and i dated younger women, 1-2 yrs younger... I'm 19 now.

I hear about it often, many of my friends have dated older women: 19yr old dude dating a 21 yr old...

If you're mature about it and you don't care about your age or hers, then she'll forget about it too.. But if u keep bringing it up then obviously she'll see what it does to you and she'll put age in the attraction equation, on the minus side

AGE DON'T MATTER UNLESS U WANT IT TO

Im 20 and I'm seeing a girl at my college whose 27. It doesnt seem to bother her but kinda bothers me sometimes. But when I spend time with her it doesnt bother me in the slightest. I don't know what it is about it that bothers me so much when Im not with her. But I know it doesnt bother me when Im with her.

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Most females have a HUGE issue if you are younger. I know that is all the rage in feminized America, but it goes against nature. If you just want sex from the broad that is one thing, but a relationship will never workout. Men don't hit their prime until well into their 40's (prime money making years). Women in their 40's are pretty much sterile and wrinkled. Men just age better.

Ive always found it fairly easy to get a one nighter with an older woman--but day two brings out the extreeems in them

[1] you never hear from them again after getting the lest JbF or else get a big speach about how wrong it was of her and she feels so bad because she is too old and i should meet someone my own age--and even more ''im not like this with everyone'' than usual

[2]they go pure clingy like a siamese twin and want to settle down and have you meet their family as if she has scored some type of trophy

This only applys to 10years older or more anything under 5 i wouldnt even see it as part of the equation to be honest

Go for it but I hope you know how to kill one-itis if it shows up because if you don't, it will be a bitch to get over if you see her everyday.

I layed woman 8-12 years older than me...Those girls are always asking me "Do you have a problem with marrying older woman"..Duh...of course I do...I don't want a woman who is gonna be leather necked when I am still in my prime.

Woman 5-10 years younger than me seem to have less of a problem...they are looking for maturity and security. The only thing you have to worry about is keeping up with them and what they like to do.

But some other posting are generally correct.

But for her to be 25 and you 21...yes, she is thinking several things..
1. How can YOU provide for her...
2. How mature are YOU...
3. She may be looking for marriage material...if you are NOT that...then walk away.


J-Dub

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