Hey,

Has anyone ever had this.....I have known this one girl for over a year now and we have played around but just not had sex yet. I dont want a relationship from her, I just want to have sex with her for my own pride and to say I have shagged her, I used to want her really badly as a girlfriend but have seen the light and realised she aint gf material, I have this sort of burning desire to shag her then believe I can move on. I think its some variation of oneiotis, however i have just got news that one of our mates beat me to it. It sorta feels like I have lost the challenge, lost the game! That his game is better than mine, when I know for a fact he has no game. He has done everything you not meant to, but still has the girl! The problem is I live this girl too, she lives next door to me!

Anyone had a similar experience? Is this oneiotis? Am I being a stupid afc?

Peace

NO.FX

It's probably a dent in your pride, because your friend beat you to it. Try to shrug it off, like you said, he has no game. You can do better than him.

Maybe it's a sort of oneitis yes, you should move on because really, do you want to shag her still after your friend did it?

Good luck,

Chillburg.

thats a harsh one, id take it as an insult if another dude came up and easily got it.

Just dont think about it too much, it could make you restless thinking about it. I know I have. Besides, if a friend knew i liked a girl and he ended up trying to get with her, i couldnt allow that.

it is a big dent in my pride. the thing is she is in his direct friends group but is an indirect mate to me. I see him when he is round at the flat but dont go out with him or chill with him. More of an acquaintance.

Do I wanna shag her, half and half! I dont want sloppy seconds but then maybe it would put an end to things and 'get it out of my system'.

What would you guys do? Fulfil a challenge or leave it and try and move on. If i wasnt living with her I would just cut all ties but its hard when u live in the same place as someone!

Peace

No.FX

if you really like sex, then ur gonna shag her anyways.. regardless of what ur friend did!
he was 1st to reach the finish line, but who will satisfy her best?

I think that's a new competition! who gives it better?? i wouldnt give up, cuz u know its gonne be worth it!