I mean, I was out last night on a work night out, all was good, even attraction and flirting between me and the other women in the group, although wasn't wanting or expecting anything from that but, another woman I've been texting was out and she wanted to meet up, but so did a woman I pulled a few weeks prior (not sure about this, asked my mate to get her to come out and speak to her, because I never see her at work, due to days and times of work). He wasn't happy that I didn't choose to see her, because she liked me too - I didn't feel enough comfort was built at time, but anyway...

So there were two plus woman up for it and I chose one and went to see her! I know this shows I have value as I was wanted by women but the fact that I chose one over another does this make me look sleazy (which I certainly am not!), and have lower value to mates?

Any ideas?

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Gaming is a part of life! I realise that now! It affects almost everything you do...

It will only make you look sleazy if you jump from one woman to another and kiss/fuck all of them. You being chased by multiple women is a DHV, as long as you don't act like a slut (which you don't, like you said).

I mean, if a girl is being chased by you and another guy, and she goes and sees the other guy instead of you, she's not a slut either (unless she did you first ).

And what do you mean lower value to mates? If they think of you as a slut, for acting the way you do, they're just jealous.

Dude, you INCREASED your value...that is WHY the girls are competing for YOUR attention...

You date who you want to date. But if you stick it to both of them, then it would be well-advised for you to tell both of them that you are dating other people....they should get the hint and maybe will try HARDER to convince you that THEY are the one for you.

At any rate, IF you are being honest...that alone will INCREASE your value further...If you LIE and they catch you in it, then you have DECREASED your value and both of them will likely ditch you.

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.