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| laboogie | PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 8:08 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 02, 2009 12:32 am Posts: 6 AOL: hapifeetlaboogie Location: San Diego | | Whenever I encounter an HB, its always in tough situations; such as them with their back turn in a group of 4 in a discussion, people in a rush at work talking with supervisor, At the mall where theres one girl im attracted to in a big group with guys and girls or in the middle of a bank line. These situations frustrate me and causes LMR because I would feel as if I would be imposing or by comming off as rude. Its a bit much and I apologize for sounding like an AFC but someones gotta start somewhere. Any help with these types of situations? _________________ Stop stopping and keep on keeping on
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| Jav | PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:35 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Dec 28, 2008 8:59 pm Posts: 1929 Location: the moon | | Hi, I wanted to talk to you but I thought you were busy.
Be honest and genuine.
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| VinceWagner | PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 2:49 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Dec 03, 2009 4:08 pm Posts: 10 Website: http://www.Vince-Wagner.com Location: High Wycombe, UK | | I think that last response hits right on it... I think in these situations honest is always the best policy - BUT as you approach, don't start the sentence with "sorry.." or "excuse me...".
This psychologically implies that you are interrupting their life with something inconvenient when in truth you are giving them a true personal connection. A spark. Something special. Right?
So just be honest and sincere. Don't worry about "imposing" or "being rude".. just go for it and assume that she wants you to talk to her. Don't make an excuse for your seemingly random intrusion. _________________ Vince Wagner
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| laboogie | PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 7:02 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 02, 2009 12:32 am Posts: 6 AOL: hapifeetlaboogie Location: San Diego | | Thanks man, that helps. Any advice on approach that are in groups? _________________ Stop stopping and keep on keeping on
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| VinceWagner | PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 7:09 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Dec 03, 2009 4:08 pm Posts: 10 Website: http://www.Vince-Wagner.com Location: High Wycombe, UK | | I would personally use a standard approach line, and over-flirt with her in front of her friends but interact with them too.. make them laugh.
As you'll know, get in with them and you've got a HUGE chance of getting in with her. The second you walk away, they will say something like "He's nice.. go on girl!" and make the decision for her, pretty much.
If they're alll hot and you're not too fussed about who you end up with then it's not too tough to flirt with them all mildly.. so that they all feel like "the one!" and then hone in on one who seems to respond the most.
Enjoy. _________________ Vince Wagner
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| laboogie | PostPosted: Sun Dec 06, 2009 9:54 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 02, 2009 12:32 am Posts: 6 AOL: hapifeetlaboogie Location: San Diego | | thanks for the advice. It's been working out pretty good so far, Much appreciated. _________________ Stop stopping and keep on keeping on
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