Whats up PUAs,
Went to a party last night (my first party in a long long long time, haven't been to a party in months!). It was a good party with a few girls there that I have been gaming (or trying to game) for a long time now.
Good news is, I ended my 4-year-no-makeout streak. Thats right. I hadn't made out with a girl since 9th grade. Fuckin BLOWS. I made out with 2 different girls last night and kissed another 2. All HB8s and up.
BUT
It wasn't because of game or pick up. It took no skill at all to do it. It was part of a card game called Suck & Blow, where you and other people stand in a circle and pass a card around by suction - suck it with your mouth so it stays, pass it to the next person. If you fuck up, you kiss the person you fucked up with. If you fuck up with that person 3 times, you make out with them. for like 10 seconds or something.
So great news I got to make out with some girls. But I don't feel like I earned it. I didn't game these girls. In fact, it was because I wasn't good at a game that I got to make out with these girls.
Other than that, I had the same vibe at this party as I normally do in social situations: I was the try-hard kid who wanted attention. I couldn't help it. I went in there with high energy which was good, but I did a lot of yelling and saying things to get attention, which I didn't get too much of. People kind of paid attention to me, but the other guys there had higher social proof and therefore seemed higher value...
I also tried a little routine on this girl there:
Me: Hey, I need your opinion on something.
HB9: Okay, sure!
Me: This is pretty serious and personal, can I trust that I'll get your honest opinion?
HB9: Haha yeah I promise I promise.
Me: Okay... Does purple make me look gay? (I was wearing a purple dress shirt that I've got hundreds of compliments on)
HB9: Hahaha yeah (nods)
Me: It does?
HB9: Yeah it does! Ha
Me: Ouch that hurts.
[At this point she kind of lost interest and walked away to talk to someone.]
[LATER ON]
Me: So I look gay, huh?
HB9: Yes! haha
Me: Well... you know what? That pink sweater makes you look like a dyke.
HB9: Hahaha oh it does?
Me: Yeah. And those jeans just add to it. You just look like a total dyke.
HB9: Okay lol blah blah blah (can't quite remember
)
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This was the quality of my game last night. Brutal.
See, I am great with theory. My problem is the application of game. I just seem to forget most of it when I am actually in field with a girl.
I got props from my buddies for hookin up, even though I wouldn't count it as a hookup because it was part of a game not actually earned.
That was a long one. Any thoughts? Constructive Criticism? Feedback of any kind is always appreciated and read.
Peace.
CHAT