| Alright.
So I live in a normal city (13.000people) in Belgium, and I'm in high school.
I guess that almost everyone here is from america/uk/..., so bear in mind that our schools differ from yours. There is no "football club" or "chess club" ,... and shit. It's just, school and leave and on fridays we all go grab some beers.
So in my schools there aren't real HB's, a couple nice girls up to HB7 at MOST.
Also, I don't go to school to pick up girls, it isn't the place imo. You are somewhere where everyone that's there HAS to be there, so like obliged. It's not something voluntairy like going out. Ofcourse that doesn't mean I can't train my game.
But I never planned on making someone in my school my gf or something, so I didn't really care about my image. I guess many girls think I want to fuck them, because I'm very cocky&funny and sexual in school, because it's the only thing that's not boring. In school I try to go as crazy as possible so I don't bore myself to death.
But to the point now, there is this new girl from this year, she's in my year and she's fine. In my school she's like the upper class in looking nice. But as I said before, I'm not searching a gf in my school, just girls to "use" to kill boredom.
- Oh btw, I'm a social guy, I talk with a lot of people, I have no shame at all. So everyone, or almost everyone knows who I am. Just my enthousiasm levels are often too high to create a good rapport/friendship w/e also because I don't care enough-
But lately she's been texting me, talking to me on msn and stuff. Not 2 days, but weeks and weeks. Even when I showed disinterest, she kept talking to me ON MSN. (1. That's point 1, she (almost) never confronts me at school, but when we are in the same set we can talk normally, and sometimes we exchange funny looks during classes that we attend together). One time, I was in a really bad mood and she kept bla bla'ing about really BORING shit (I know, I have to lead and make the convo interesting, but I hate msn/sms-game because I can't kino or do crazy stuff. Also a lot of funny things I say are only funny in real) and I snapped and was like "CAREEEEE", then I explained to her that I really don't care about that your [insert boring story here].
I didn't ment to be rude, but too much shit came together and I couldn't hold it.
-I have no agression problem or anything, I think everyone has something like that sometimes-.
Now I know these could be strong IOI's right, she keeps talking to me, even after showing a lot of disintrest, even after snapping at her. (btw next day in school she and I were really cool about it). Now the weird shit is, she also texts my friend a lot and she often mentions my friends, as if trying to make me jealous.
Now, is she in to me? Is she in to my friend and just using me? Or is she just bored and wants to talk?
I guess I should be answering that myself, but suggestions are welcome.
But my real question is, What do I do here? I hate sitting on the middle right, so I wanted to take action, I said: "You should take me out next weekend". But she had a game so she couldn't and had to learn (That was genuine that she couldn't go out that weekend). Because I thought, we meet in isolation, she has no pressure from her friends or whatever. I try to escalate really fast and shit. It either goes or not, if she rejects I say, "Yeah we SHOULD stay friends, I just wanted to be sure you didn't have those feelings so this wouldn't get in the way later on" Or something like that.
Wow that's a lot of text.. well I hope someone takes his time and reads it.
Thanks in advance!
|
CHAT
