a pua is a boy that love girls
in my case i love girl the most in my life....i haven't found nothing better than women in this world.
have sex with different girls is cool and is what i did in the last few years.
have a connection with a girl is better than just having sex so being in a relationship is cool but than you have to stop to have sex with many girls.
so this is the situation......i found a girl that i really like...she is my type but the only thing that stop me going into something serious is that i have to stop to date other girls.
in the last years i did many experiences and i understood more about girls.
many girls cheated on their boyfriend with me and this made me understand that if i will be in a relationship it could happen also to me.
so the big question is.....how you guys can be in a serious relationship without the problem of thinking that that girl will be the only one that you will fuck for the rest of your life?
the beghinning is cool but after few years sex start to be boring if is always done with the same girl don't you think?
many girlfriends and wife cheat on their boyfriends and housbands because sex is boring after few year.
even if i really like my past girls and i also really like this i never thought they were for life......maybe i'm not a dreamer and i'm too realistic but this is what happened
i can't accept the thought to be with the same one with the rest of your life......you should just look at how many wife and housband broke up and you will understand how i feel.
be onest guys....have ever happen to you (also if was just at the beghinning of the relationship) to think that your girl was for life and you wasn't thinking about other girls

well nobody said life was easy ....

nobody said it's without risks ...... relationships aren't easy or 100% guaranteed.
every step you make in life is a risk ... even crossing the street can be a huge risk.

who are you ? are you the guy who jumps out the plane with a parachute ? or are you the guy who rather watch TV which doesn't add value to your life.

you have to find out before you can experience... Fear is a mind killer .. fear is the reason we start illegal wars ... fear is the reason we get depresses ... fear is the reason why we cannot funtion to our fullest expectation.

there is fear in approaching girls , there is also fear in relationships


HOWEVER

if you trust yourself and control yourself in a relationship you will do fine , what happens to alot of guys is that they doze-off after they fucked her.
thats a huge problem... you have to keep being on top of the relationship at all times and you need to invest in it.

those are 2 things people consistently fail at....... yes cheating happens but it depends who you are with. NOt everyone cheats and not every girl is a scumbag.

that's why i don't fuck girl from bars and venues, i have a build in SLUT RADAR.
find yourself a high quality girl, someone who you can trust and can be trusted.

for your information ... i got cheated twice.... yeah it feels bad - but do i keep feeling bad and stop expanding my life ? or should i find someone who is capable of being trusted.

i got a new relationship now ..... someone who is way better than the other girlfriends i had.

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i know what you mean and i agree with you but.....
my problem is that even if i find a hot,smart,faithfull girl etc i can't see myself just with her.
i can't stop dating other girls....is a drug
i don't understand how people that are merried can live the rest of their life fucking the same girl
have anybody experienced this feeling?

perhaps you have never been in love... or you have been in love but your pua mind lets you think "being in love is not alpha" - which is not true

I agree with this, keep going until you find a girl that you get that special connection with OR change your mindset, being Alpha isn't having no feelings and just being like a brick wall.

Think about it, girls want an Alpha male so she feels secure and there is a good base to build a successful family on. If she wants to feel secure it means you need to protect her, and you protect the things you love. So being an alpha male is actually about showing your feelings of love! showing that you love the girl and your family by protecting them and looking after them. Too many guys think being an alpha male is all about not giving a fuck and hitting the nearest guy because he looked at you weird. Thats just being a dick, not being alpha. A true alpha will stand tall and be a gentleman, but not a pushover.

And yes, SOME girls cheat, thats just a fact of life, i got into PU because girls cheat! I was sick of the cheap drunken sluts, they're easy to get, being a PUA allows you to be able to talk to the nicer more reserved girls, without making them think your just gonna mess them about like every other guy. Being a PUA isn't just about raising your sex tally, it's a set of tools to be used however you like, there are no rules to say what your using them to get.

Also you've got to trust your judgement. trust that you've chosen the right girl not to cheat. Most instances of cheating happen because the boyfriend has been a dick, that doesn't make it right, and it isn't an excuse, but it does mean 90% of the time you can prevent it from happening. Find a nice girl, and treat her well and you can be happy.

If that isn't your style and you just like sex with lots of girls then fine, as long as your always honest with the girls and they're ok with it, have fun! There are no rules to what you should do in life, just be a good person and enjoy yourself.