i ran into a 9 at a dressing room. I went in said id like to try on x # of items. Thought to myself I think im going to ask for her opinion on the pants i was trying on... see if she would bite. Heres how it went:
(ME) "hey would you mind giving me your opinion on these pants?
(HER) "They look good!, you should buy them. =)
(ME) theyre not too baggy? What do you think of the color... too dark?
(HER) theyre great
(ME) I have to be somewhere would you midn if i wore the pants out of the store?
(HER) Sure
We were sort of making plays at each other indirectly and i can tell shes picking up on my "humor". I gave her back the things i didnt want and look at her and say
(ME) so you work here full time huh? shes like yep. she goes im working tomorow 9-5. i say ok great. and left
I didnt seize the moment however i walked away and went to checkout when i saw a coat i liked. I figured id go back and ask for her opinion again. I try on the coat, step out and say hey fashionista girl what dya think of this? too long? think i can rock it without looking like a midget? She found it funny and were chatting a bit back and forth about the pros and cons of the jacket. I say great thanks for th advice hun.
(ME) So whatre you doing tonight?
(HER) she smiles and says visiting my uncle.... im using the 70/30 rule at this point and i say "thats nice of you" and she rambles on about her uncle (broign the fuck outta me) she finsihes and I say alright well thanks for your help and bail like a bitch. on my way out i say "If i wakeup tomorow and dont like this thing im gonna kick you" you says dont kick me too hard now. =)) and i laugh and leave.

NOW I went back a week later and bought a dress shirt and totally bomb it. Shes ringing me up and shes totally trying to pick me up this time, instead of the other way around. Fuck yea! ANyways i totally froze up and i had all these great things i planned to say but failed to fucking say them. I was brainstorming about some things and thought id throw in a christmas PU routine goes like "Hey heave you heard what hapeened to santa? girl says "no... what!? He broke his leg and is holding open tryouts, im thinkin of headin down south to take the test but idk if ill make the weight requirement" (Im an athletic built guy) (laughter) =) Or I had this other routine i was gonna use goes like:
(ME)"How much do you love your job? I bet they LIKE REALLLLYYY appreciate you huh?? (Saracasm)
(HER) blah blah
(ME) Its ok i hate my job too
(HER) Oh yea what is it that you do?
(ME) Im an astronaut, yea i work for NASA! etc etc plenty to bullshit from this point, i could talk about how i was on the appllo missions or something stupid but funny ya know

Anyways my point here is i have plenty of "game" but Ive found that my apporach anziety is outrageous and once i talk to a chick i have everything to say i mean im a fuckin pro at all other parts of my game except approach. Sooo god dayum frustrating. Because I know i can mack it to any broad but i seem to have a difficult time breaking down that barrier. I dont wanna stalk this girl and scare her off, but i know shes totally into me, no doubt. I have style like real class and i dress outstanding not just some bullshit a&f shit but like suits and clacin klein sweater fleeces etc. I feel like some of this stuff is situational hingent upon my setting and some of it is also due to my stress level in general which has been pretty high lately due to certain life obstacles... but itd be a lot better if i could get my "nut" off and cool the fuck off by bagging this broad or some other one. I wont fuck a 6 7's and up id rather pump my fist then settle for hookers, though i love strippers. HELP ME GUYS i know im not helpless i need to get past this AA.
My big questions here are...
Do i still have a shot, even though ive had two seperate interactions with her, 1 that went failry well and 1 that i totally bombed. SHould i go back? if so, should i wait a day or two or more and have it seem not obvious.
Im wondering if anyone thinks this is a failed opportunity or if i still have a shot to bag this girl or not.
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interesting.. I don't think there's such thing as a failed opportunity, you can always have hope, but whether it's worth the effort is another question. There might be only a 10 percent chance she'll hook up with you. But there's still a chance, right?

On AA, you're using scripted routines, you've thought them up in your head previously, which means you're going to be up in your head and not in the moment, this will create massive approach anxiety, work on your inner game, let the witty lines come out in the moment. No need to brainstorm.