Whenever I go to any club at least one cute girl (HB7.5-8.5) will make long eye contact with me a few times on different walks by her (sometimes she'll smile, sometimes she won't, but she'll always have the same sort of interested look in her eyes). I've approached these girls a few times now and as soon as I open my mouth, it's like the sensual eye contact element we had going before dissipates instantly after I open up with some somewhat high energy shit like "What's up! My name's ch4mp *outstretch hand for handshake*." We'll generally chat about some lame ass shit for a few minutes, she'll look bored, and I'll eject.

Sooo, what the fuck do I with these girls? How do I approach them? I usually go up to them with the same body language I generally have with cold approaches and it works worse than it does with the girls I cold approach (cold approach meaning none of these eye contact sessions).

Should I just approach these chicks in a direct way and use almost a bed room voice with them?

Try opening with this next time I saw it on keys to the vip and it worked really good for the guy.what he said was...

So are you just going to keep starring at me and not talk to me? (he said it in a calm relaxed confident mature yet playful at the same time sort of way.)

after that the girl chuckled and they started talking. What I have done before to a girl that kept starring at me is I smiled at her then gave her a wink, she quickly looked away smiled and her face turned red, and she would just keep passing by starring at me even more. I didn't open her because I had to leave right away and plus her boyfriend was with her lol

OK, I'll try that.

The only two outcomes are:

A.) They're just doing it to get some attention and just want to fuck with my head (dangerous way of thinking, besides if they want attention, they're at a fucking club/bar; they can get it from tons and tons of guys). IDGAF about rejection, it's no big deal.
B.) They like the way I move and want me to get to the point of the interaction.

Nothing can go wrong as far as i see, lol. Approaching these girls directly will weed out the A's.


Maybe the extremely indirect, super high energy way I've been approaching (the whole picture including body language, which might actually suck) has been incongruent with the way I was looking at them.

If they give you a massive IOI like that, then why use an indirect opener? Just have the confidence to go direct and you can bypass the whole c+f shit and get right to the point.