Basically, there's this girl i've met in city x through my cousin. Initial interactions are good, but towards the end of the night things get weird and it seems like I've creeped her out.

I go home thinking I've fucked it up.

But I add her on facebook and somehow manage to get her number and set up a day 2.

I make a statement of interest so she knows I'm interested.

The date goes OK. It's coffee at starbucks and we talk for hours.

I do a bit of negging and a little kino. But I didn't bounce to another location and the convo goes stale and she puts on her coat! So I offer to walk her to her bus stop.

Her bus is already there, but she says stuff like she doens't have to catch that one because another bus also goes her way. She fiddles with her change for ages and then gives me a really long hug before she gets on her bus.


I'm absolutely pissed I didn't make a move on her so I text her:

Me:
Hey where's my good bye kiss. Do i need mistletoe or something? ha ha. Hope you get home safely.

Her:
Mistletoe is preferable, lol, hope you get home safely too.

Me:
In that case I'll need three sprigs.

I fucked up the last msg no doubt. And her reply is telling me no doubt she wanted me to make a move on her.


Unfortunately, I texted her the next day to go out for a meal. And she straight out turned me down.

So I replied immediately saying that was cool, but maybe we can hang out some other time. She didn't reply.

It's now been a week and she's back in city x, but she'll be back where I live for xmas.

Is all lost, what should I do?

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my suggestion is to wait until she is back in town for christmas and then call her and invite her out somewhere. IMO if you contact her before that it will come off as needy.

Sounds like a decent idea. Will go with that.

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cool man i hope it works out for you, write an update when it all goes down