Hi. i cant find my problem in my msn chats with girls, especially this one:
first of all,int the real life, i was trying the gay opener on one girl(i can't belive i did it! it was so lame and seriously damaged my value!). after i found that she didn't like that sentence, i told her that it was a bet with a friend. i didnt close anything. at the next day, she added me on facebook, i counted it as an IOI(is it IOI?). i asked my friend her MSN and texted her this:
"ok, im giving up, i kinda like you"(at the last weekend i was at my friend's house and i saw her and she asked me with her friend which he is a boy if i like her. i told her no )
she didnt texted me back.
after a hour i sent her "Hey Don't ignore me!"
She:"what? lol"
me:"have you seen what i wrote you ?"
she"wait.....lol! i knew it, everyone like me"
me:"i tought im starting to like you but i dont like people who ignores"
she" i wasnt !"
me: " lol, you know what, i think you have the right to ignore me after the gay thing "
she"yea, i think. listen i gotta go, see you later. bye bye"
me:"yea i gotta go too, bye"

she is like the third woman who cuted me off after a good interesting MSN chat. and i dont think that she is going to send me a message again, and i won't send her(i can't stand the risk in another ignore).

what is wrong with me? :S

Quit bringing up all the stuff you know you did was wrong.

You KNOW this girl likes you. So why try and call her out on it or get her to admit it. Girls don't behave logically so they will never admit something like that.


It looks like you're stalking her as well. You weren't supposed to know her msm just her facebook. That might have creeped her out.

Just think of something fun to do and ask her out on a date.

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1) Girls love the chase. If you give up too to fast and tell them that you like them off the bat they get bored and want to start looking for a challenge.

2)When she didn't text you back you don't call her out on it. Again it goes back to chasing her. If you push too much she'll loose interest.

3)"I thought i'm starting to like you but I don't like people who ignore"
Now you are just throwing it in her face. You told her twice already that she ignored you and you are telling her again that you like her. The way you formulated that last sentence sounds to me being a third party reader like "I used to like you but you're a bitch for not answering"

My advice for you is be cool, take a step back. If a girl does or say something you don't like don't let it bother you. Just ignore it. Don't let her see that she is getting to you. Finally I agree with Tweeby. Ask her out and play some game on her.

-JA

I have been waiting for her to log in the facebook(i know it's not cool, but she can't see it )and ask her for her msn, but she never logged in, and i didn't know what to write in the facebook mail because we talked just for something like 5 minutes .. i actually wrote to her friend "if i wasnt gay, you would give me your msn "..i didnt want to use the same sentence..

Hows your confidence and Inner game?? just from this little conversation it looks as tho your knid of unconfident a little needy perhaps?? try to work on your frame, you ARE the man, confident and cool, let her chase you. Neg her and knock her onto the backfoot, lower her vaule and pump up your own.

and please dont bring up anything to do with the gay opener, if you thought it was a DLV the first time why bring it up and remind her of it again? she had probably already forgot about it.

I would try talking to her again, i mean if she ignores you...so wat?? shes just another girl, theres another 3 billion out there, go get em!!