Well I just got back from the nightclub and for some reason I could not approach a single girl, could not keep conversations going, and even had my ass grabbed and I did absolutely nothing about it. But whenever I go to a normal bar or just even day game I am killing it there is no stopping me. Even all my friends (who do not know about game) were like "WTF is wrong with you?" you usually have a group of girls with you. I need help with inner game if anyone has some good links or material on inner game that would be great. Also for some reason even though I know that openers work and I have used them many of times I kept thinking to myself that every girl would just shut me out what do you do to remind yourself that they do work.

Might I suggest affirmations?

Worked wonders with me and now I'm on-top of the world, bro!

You actually know you're a great guy, right? Why tell yourself otherwise?

And the golden rule: "Don't care"

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Some people just find that club sarging isn't for them. I personally can't stand it. Too loud, little dancing skills, half the time I can't stand the music. I'm just never comfortable in the place and my game always ends up reflecting that at some point. Don't beat yourself up, if you keep trying in that particular setting it'll become as easy as breathing.

Well, first off, maybe try to find out about the kind of dance music / DJs you actually like, and then only go to club nights where you know you're actually gonna enjoy the music. You want to make sure you're having fun first before you start approaching!

Secondly, if you're worried about dancefloor / loudness issues, I find the smoking area of clubs is a great place to open sets. You can quickly build social proof, there is no pressure to dance, and it's quiet so you can really hear what people are saying. Also, there's no more functional an opener than "do u have a light?" You're not gonna get blown out for saying that! After opening a bunch of sets there, when you go back in, you can re-engage and gain social proof in the venue too.

Until I'm old enough to get into jazz clubs or until I find a club that plays a lot of Hardcore/Metalcore music I probably won't be sarging in clubs anytime soon lol.