obviously its an IOI. but what do you say? I was talking to a bartender and she was like "I just can't get over how cute you are" I was just shocked that she would say that. I barely talked to her for 5 seconds and that came out. I was going to get her number..but it was a complex situation. There was another girl that works with her and she was attracted to me as well and i wanted to eff close her. So i didn't pursue the bartender. 2 days later that same bartender comes around, and she doesn't want anything to deal with me

lesson learned