So a very close friend of mine has recently agreed to be my wing when we go out to local bars/clubs. She's an HB9 so I know even without trying she'll help create social proof. But what are some things she can do to help my pick up? I know she can help to DHV, but can anyone give me some examples?

Any advice is greatly appreciated!

Hi Oceanborn,

I've tried this before as I have a female wing too but an very unreliable one.

Start off by approaching a set then get her to join 30 secs later creating the scenario you are one of her best friends she hasn't seen in years who hugs and kisses you then introduce her to the set.

Have some reward scheme like for every n-close or k-close i'll buy you a drink. This will make her work harder for you.

Careful not to go AFC and have feeling for you female wing.

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This is tricky, if you have a wing women a proper one you shouldnt need to know how to use her, women no what they look for in men she is a women, so she wld be able to show things in you she knowns the other girls want to see...

secondly she needs to understand your game, theres nothing worse than a wing women who u introduce as a friend and then flirts with you its great for DHV but think bout it makes no real sencee if you want her to flirt and DHV for you then introduce her as a X gf, scary thought but it has worked as they not only see her as what you are used to..

they see you as a man of high standards, and the fact the girl YOU LEFT still wants you *ping* lightbuld in there head well she cant have you i want you...

i highly recommend the old friend game and not the X gf gaming, as X gf needs to be done very carefully but can lead to great success

I agree, she definitely needs to know your style of pick up. But some more specific things she can do are play with your hair (like mess it up a bit) and just kino you a bit. If the time and scenario are right, should could give you a kiss on the cheek.

But wingwomen arent't like wingmen. They do not serve the same purpose. She really is there for social proof and you shouldnt expect her to do the talking for you. Although, if she is good, she may be able to open some sets for you and then you join her later.

I would say a good way to introduce her would be to give her some money to got get a drink for you and her. In the meantime, you open a set. Then she will come that set when she has the drinks and it will look like she bought you the drink.

Thanks guys, these are all some great ideas.

My original thought was opening sets together, but that was just because I hadn't even thought of having her come up mid-set.

I think the 'friend who hasn't seen you in a while' approach will work well.

Any last tips?

There is no such thing as a female wing. (In spite of what some guru/video utube pickup master champion lecture guy(s) would have you believe)

Why aren't you fucking the hb9?

One of you DEFINITELY wants to fuck the other. One of you thinks the other is not worthy. Based on what you've written so far, I don't know who is who . . .

why not fuck her AND use her as a wingwoman

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