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PostPosted: Wed Nov 18, 2009 5:49 am 
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Just moved back to my hometown, and a girl who I used to see before I moved away broke up with her bf last week. Was most definitely b/c I'm back in town, and she wants to be with me. Had two nights of great talks and amazing sex, and then the other night she decided to crash early and texted me...

"hey but i gotta tell ya, i feel a bit strange about us hookin up, since [bf] and i just broke up"
She then went on to say that she needed some time to herself and that it was...
"only for a couple days though, until I feel normal"

I've ceased contact since then (today is the 3rd day) besides last night when I had to ask her a time sensitive question about if she and her friends wanted guestlist spots for a big concert this week, which she was very excited about and sent me a couple names to throw on it. I see the issue being one of the following...

1. She's worried about her friend group thinking she's a ho for breaking up with [bf] and then immediately running to me since he's part of the close friend group
2. She's trying to cover my ass and make it look like I wasn't the reason, and that she decided after-the-fact that she wanted to get back together with me (although that's unlikely b/c she's very smart, and it was pretty obvious why she broke it up)
3. She still has feelings for [bf] and is realizing now that she misses him, which could be b/c of....
4. ...her being under the impression that I can't commit to anyone, b/c she knows I very rarely will be in a relationship that we've decided to label as boyfriend/girlfriend - although I definitely do want to be in a committed relationship with this girl, but I haven't mentioned it yet since I figured that was a terrible idea immediately after she broke up.

So is this anything I should even be worried about? If so, what kind of tips can yall give me in regards to handling this situation? Continue the cease of contact until the upcoming show? Risk expressing that I'm very open to starting a relationship with her b/c I feel like that could be the most likely situation for her having second thoughts? Quit worrying about stupid bullshit and just charm the hell out of her at this show while being the man in front of her ex? He'll be there, which I'm totally fine with b/c I know they'll still hang out frequently, and I'm definitely a much better match for her. I know we're meant to be together at this point, just want to be sure I'm playing this properly since I don't have any experience with rebound girls having second thoughts.

Thanks yall!


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