| Sorry for the long post, but I am trying to give you guys as much information as I can about this, since you weren’t there and are relying upon me to tell you what happened. Ok, let me first start off by saying my gut instinct is that both of these girls are interested in me, but it also gets a little more complicated than just “Does she like me?” If you don’t want to read a long post, stop now.
OK, onto the history with these two girls.
Girl A: Met her about a year ago, she had a boyfriend at the time, so nothing happened. Saw her again like 6 months later, thought she was still in a relationship, so I didn’t really care. Only said a few things to her, but they must have had an impact because she told a mutual friend that she was interested. Got her number, but had some technical problems so nothing really came of it. Got back in touch with her in June through facebook (she initiated), but again, had some problems so nothing happened. Well, she must have thought I blew her off, because when we all went out for my roommates’ b-day (female), she was not happy to see me. She kept migrating away from me the whole night. I finally got her isolated at the bar, and tried to joke with her (I thought she had blown me off) “Hey, you owe me a beer.” Nothing, probably less than nothing. Ok, change of tactics. “Hey, how come you never got back to me?” Well, that seemed to do it, because after that, she opened up a lot whenever I have seen her.
Girl B: Met her the same night I met A, again in a relationship, didn’t know what to do anyway. Saw her the second time at my roommates’ b-day as well. Talked to her, but nothing more than just being social. Again, didn’t really think I had a chance.
Here is where things start to get intertwined:
Went with my roommate to one of her friends b-days. Well, both Girl A and B were there. Now, at this point, I didn’t think Girl B was/would be interested, I had heard through the grapevine that she was into some guy. So, I get there, and am planning on working on Girl A, so I start chatting to some other girl at the party for Social Proof. Well, that went well, because that girl was into me, but I wasn’t into her. Well, that pissed this girl off (she was a little drunk), and she told her friend and my roommate that I had been rude to her (I didn’t want to dance with her, and I don’t dance anyway). Well, that pissed off the birthday girl, who took her friends side, but my roommate stood up for me, and so did Girl A (he is a nice guy, maybe you just don’t get his humor, he busts on everyone, etc.). Well, me not knowing any of this, goes off in search of more Social Proof. I talk to some of the guys there, the other girls, and Girl B. Now, I tend to follow David D’s stuff, as it fits with my personality more. So, when I am talking to Girl B, I bust on her. This seems to take her by surprise, as she isn’t used to it, and she tells my roommate, “I think Bubbl’ah just made fun of me.” But, she kept talking to me, so I must not have offended her. Meanwhile, Girl A is migrating toward me this time, coming across the little circles that people form to dance with Girl B, who I am standing next to talking to, so she is basically dancing in front of me, with her side/back towards me. At one point, I went to the bathroom, and she followed shortly after, she went in with my roommate, and it was single stalls, so I don’t think she necessarily needed to be there. Meanwhile, Girl B is talking to some guy that she has/had a thing for, doing the whole laughing, tossing her head/hair, but also I see her looking at me sometimes. Well, if she was looking for some kind of jealousy reaction, I gave her nothing, and as we’re leaving she locks eyes with me, waves and says bye, and I just kind of gave her the up nod and a cya. Meanwhile, I have lost track of Girl A, and didn’t tell her bye, and vice versa.
Flash Forward to a party by me and my roommate:
Girl A we know is coming, Girl B we are not sure of. Well, the party gets going, and I am busting on Girl A, getting the arm slap, and the middle finger with a smile and a face that says,” That was funny, but I cant hit you, so here ya go” when she is too far away. Eventually, Girl B shows up and we get to talking. She was a psych major, and I happened to have some ink blots from an old game. So I pull those out to ask her how they help psychiatrists, and they were a big hit, with people shouting out what they saw. I eventually move to the couch, after some more teasing, and Girl B follows. Somehow, I wind up having her punch my hand like a boxer, and telling her she has “Tiny fists of fury.” She then said she could do better kicking, so we lined it up and I had her do the same thing with her foot, told her “The fists hurt more.” So, she ends up punching again, after a couple I tell her, “Hey, after you’re done, think you can work my back, it’s a little sore from the gym.” After a little more chatting and teasing, I get up to get a drink and she dives across the couch, not sure why. While getting a drink, I wind up talking to Girl A and a mutual friend (female). During this conversation, the friend says something to affect of, you guys have gotten close (meaning me and Girl A), at which point she puts her arm around my waist/lower back and says something to the affect of, “Yup, we’re inseparable” but in kind of sarcastic tone, but leaves her hand there for a bit. Girl B has to leave, so she comes up to my group, and says good bye to us all. She hugs Girl A, hugs the mutual friend (even though I don’t think they necessarily get along), then says, “Ok, I’ll give you a hug too.” (No, I did not ask for one, nor was I looking on longingly, just watching). So, she gives me a hug, and she leaves, I don’t think she even hugged my roommate good bye either. I continue teasing Girl A, and escalating kino slightly, until we all called it a night.
Now, my gut says that both these girls are interested, but I have a bit of a problem. They are good friends, and are good friends with my roommate, so do I have to choose one or the other, or can I pull off dating the both of them? They are about on par (8, 8.5 respectively) and the same body type, even down to their height (I had them stand back to back). I also want to be able to see other girls, including one I pulled a number from recently as well. How do I go about doing this, without having it blow up in my face? Also, don’t blast me for not number closing, its one of my sticking points, you have yours, I have mine.
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