So I had class with this girl last year and tried to go after but she had a boyfriend so I left it alone. We still studied and shit together but nothing more than that. Her boyfriend graduated and they're still together even though they live 3 hours away, but he comes to our school almost every weekend. She knows that I obviously wanted her since I asked her out a couple of times.

Anyway this year we dont have class together but we started talking outside of class which we never did before. She asked me multiple times to go out drinking but I didn't want to waste my time because I knew she was still with her boyfriend and wouldn't leave him. I was bored and asked her out this past Tuesday and we went out. Funny enough, the bartender was trying to hit on me every time she went to the bathroom and she noticed and got upset. We drank for about 5 hours and eventually just went home. I was trying to use my game but I wasn't going to escalate anything until she gave me some signals.

Then this Saturday night she asked me what I was doing and told her I was going out with my friends. She told me to come to the bar that her and her friends were at, but I went somewhere else with my friends. An hour later she texted me asking how the bar I was at was and I told her it was good. She showed up 10 minutes later by herself saying she ditched her friends. She clung to me all night for a couple of hours and I told her I was leaving but she convinced me to stay for one more drink. I agreed to stay if she bought me a drink which she did. She took about one sip of her beer and said she couldn't drink it and made me finish it. I told her I was leaving again, but she asked me to go get food which I agreed to if she paid for it. She agreed and we went for food and ate it outside talking for like an hour. So were walking home and I innocently hold my arms out to hug her and she just looks at me and shakes her head. I froze out of amazement and some drunk guy yells give him a hug and she says to me "I like his accent I want to hug him" and she hugs him. Of course I just said you have fun with that and walked away.

On Sunday she texts me saying shes upset that I made her hug some random ugly guy and I just said that sucks. Then she asks me if I was trying to take her to the strip club because she heard me and my friends talking about going there last night for someones birthday. I just blew it off because I was still pissed. What is this girl doing? Is she just trying to play games for attention?

haha, of course she's playing games for attention, cuz she knows you'll give it to her. She has a boyfriend, and yet you still agree to go out with her. You agree to go out for food with her. You let her hang with you for five hours! Do not let yourself settle for women with boyfriends; you deserve somebody with some integrity. If I were you, I would ditch her and her dramatic life, and go after that hot bartender that seems to be into you. Forget this chick.

~Kitty

On Sunday she texts me saying shes upset that I made her hug some random ugly guy and I just said that sucks

She is a freaking whack job. Boyfriend or not, stay the hell away from this girl.

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Of course she is trying to play games for attention. I would tell her to meet me at bar Y at 22.00 h on saturday and then I wouldn't even show up and I would switch my cellphone of so she can't call you when she sees you are not there. I hate girls like that. I would really get her back for being stupid.