Basically, there's this girl who I picked up at the bus stop.
To cut a long story short, I started gaming her but she dropped me in the friends zone because I probably didn't have the confidence to carry it through.
Since I've tried to organise a few meet up but she has flaked twice. Then a couple of days I run past her as I'm getting my bus and she texts me...
My thoughts are in square brackets.
rachel
Hey tweeby, how are u? I just seen u running past. Sorry
i didn't get bk to u abt meeting up. we could early at the
bus stop 2mro if u want? up to u. hope ur gd anyways
Me
Ha ha that's cool kid no probs.
How's u anyway? x
[I sent this literally within 3 minutes of getting her msg so it doesn't
look as if i'm spending hours dwelling over her msg and how affected i was
by her flaking on me. This has happend through practice.]
rachel
Im all gd ..got abit of a cold becs of the flippin weather
which kps changin. Otherwise just working as usual. Hows
work 4u?
Me
Bless ya. If ur not wearing ur pink fluffy ear muffs ur bound to
come down wit a cold! Work's fuckin busy. It's stupid. Can't
complain tho, at least i got monet to throw around. x
[Just making a statement, ignoring her meet up offer]
rachel
Why would i wear pink ear muffs anyways,not my style. Its
becs of working with snotty kids that ive got a cold. its gone around
the school. that's gd for you that your earning enough.
[She's obviously pissed I'm not jumping through her hoops...this is not the
tweeby she is used to
Oh and she validating herself to me even though
it is obviously a joke. This is a gud sign.]
me
Don't be silly kiddo. Pink and fluffy is so ur style i bet u hav matchin
slippers and pj's? Ha. Wish u all the best for le future. tweeby x
[I don't apologise although I know she's pissed off, I keep my frame then hit
her right where it hurts. Basically, this is my life and I decide that I don't
want to see her again.]
rachel
Urm no, i dont do pink..myfav colour is dark purple. you've lost it.
Ok so u dont wanna meet. Fair enough. Gd luck with your job and
everything else. takecare x
[She doesn't like this at all and is very pissed off. ]
me
It woz obviously a joke. i know u'd only be seen with purple ear muffs! ok, i'm
just windin u up. Look, maybe we'll bump into each other again and that's cool
by me. u take care too rachel. x
So my question is did I handle this the right way? My friends seems to think by doing this I've increased my level of attraction with her.
CHAT