Just got divorced and back into dating. Got some DavidD stuff (DYD, On Becoming A Man, Online Dating) and started hitting the websites. I hooked a hot, younger, former fitness model and we're hitting it off pretty good.

She said some things teasingly and I got a little defensive but I recognize that and won't let it happen again.

I want to maintain the attraction and not fuck it up. I'm conscious of keeping my power and making her work some. We had our first date last night and it was cool.

So, as a n00b recovering AFC, what are the big things I'm going to want to watch out for right away so I don't fall into old habits?

Heck, how do you wnat us to comment on your old habbits... you are the best guy to aswer that.

My pointers would just be to escalate the sexual banther and always keep the mind set that YOU are the chatch. She is the lucky one to spend all that time with you, not the other way around. That and keep the needyness down (flirt with other women).

Good luck,

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True. I know my bad habits. Most of it centers around not wanting to lose the woman or anticipating her feelings or reactions.

I have a meet tonight with another woman that's she's aware of and had a meet on Wed. I told her about.

I'm wondering if I should make first contact today or wait?

This is all rooted in the limiting belief that you will not be able to get another hot 'monster' pull. Rather then thinking "wow I got lucky with this one, better not fuck it up!" think "Wow, I can pull hot girls. If I pulled this one, then I certainly have my fair chances with others.". Abundance buddy. There are millions like this one out there. But there is only one quality man like you (well two actually, I rock as well ;) ) She is lucky to spend time with you

You can do whatever as long as it doens't come off as needy or cligny. It's good that she knows you have other options but are interested in her (don't tell her that, make her fell it).

Anhow, cheers!

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Drink me, make me feel real
Wet your beak in the stream
Game we're playing is life
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Thanks man. I forgot about abundance.

I have 3 dates in 3 days with 3 women and I forgot about abundance. ROFL.

I think this isn't some run of the mill hottie. We clicked. I was more impressed by what she said than her hot bod.