| Dude im personaly working on this at the moment and this is what ive found so far;
1. As you mentioned auditory communication is realy out the window unless your in the smoking area or there is a more chilled out area. Thus non verbal communication is key! You cant get away with a shyer approach as she will be looking at your body language more than ever. I am making sure ive done a few warm up sets before approaching, so ive got a better self worth.
2. The approach itself has to be at a higher intencity as your inviornment is higher intencity.
3. Work the club. Im blessed at the moment as im almost guaranteed at the moment to meet girls i know when im out. Whether through friends, my actual friends, or girls ive previously opened. Show your pre selected by meeting friends socialising, and use these as pivots.
4. Kino escalation is much easyer. My trademark open at the moment is to wink at an HB when i walk past, if she smiles ill almost let her walk past, and then put my hand out, if she takes my hand ill spin her in a fun and cheeky sort of way before leaning in and telling her that im borrowing her for a minute. Ill lead her a step away. And Turn on the seducer in me, and at this point if ive landed enough i.o.i's ill go for the kiss close. If i get a rejection at any point in the opening stages ill, make out it was another girl i was winking at and maybe even use this as a neg if i open her at a later date. With the hand presentation, its easy to drop it or make it look like your doing something else. And if she is worried about losing her friends, you can jump in set with them, tell her we are going to find new ones, ignore her if you think its LMR, or lean in kiss her on the cheek and tell her in that case you will see her later.
Any questions or negatives im all ears
Regards, Saint
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