Hello

I am always very nice and sweet towards my girlfriend, however she says I need to show where my borders are. Or else she will feel like if she can get away with everything.


As I said im always nice, sweet and caring about her. And yesterday out of the blue when I looked at her and smiled she grabbed my cheecks and went like you're not a real man koochie koochie. (I did not like that)
And she starts to go out with older guys lately.

I would appreciate help a lot

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Okay girls like to be taken care of. You're not her kid but her GUY. SO start acting like it. Not out of the blue, build it up. BE A MAN. Seriously... she's now into older men because her experience with her same age = childish.. aparently.

I used to be like that so no worries.

Stand up for yourself, make decissions for her and afterwards ask her if she liked it... but imagine yourself in 10 years and start acting like that now... seriously otherwise you ARE losing her.

Any others who have som advice?

In either way: dont look up to her. Give her some challenge. Show her that there are other girls too.. That really worked for my girl: competition. She has to earn you... being with you is a prize, not a favour.

Good luck, tell us how it went.

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

How can you be in the LJBF zone with your girlfriend??

Either your delusional and she isn't your girlfriend, or she is and doesn't have sex with you.

Personally I love the friend zone. Most of the girls I approach I will end up haveing some sort of relationship later down the track be it sexuall or being 'labled' a friend. It's one of the best places to be. Get her to introduce you to all her hot single friends. Oh but wait the two of you are going out.... but your just friends.

LOL

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You miss 100% of the shots you never take

Thanks for your post. I am seeing another girl Sunday night, we are going to have dinner together.

Also I am trying to set up more dates.
I must say I have not actually told my girlfriend. I think she would get back at me worse with the guys she hangs out with at the moment.
lol she does not have much female friends. Its kinda weird but she has not really strange.. I have no idea why I think she is kind of strange. But she is VERY hot though.
She has got a lot of male friends though. By the way all of her female friends (she has 2) are both ugly. I dont want to befriend them.
And yes, we have less sex almost none compared to how it used to be.

by the way yesterday I was trying to pick up a girl at a busstop, and it worked I guess. I walked her to her university cuz I knew a shortcut and we have been chatting really nice! It turned out she had a boyfriend, but she did give me her number. She actually gave it when I said goodbye.
feeling really good about it =)

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies