Ok so there's this girl at school that I'm kinda friends with. We only ever really go to lunch and dinner together, but I'd like to try and push things into something more. I know 100 percent that she's not looking for a relationship with anyone and is very into the whole "sexting" thing.

How can I bridge our relationship smoothly from not sexting to starting a sexting. My style of flirting is based a lot in the body language and why I interact with the girl so I'm not sure how to transition the mood over texting from platonic to having her talking dirty and imagining herself with me.

Any tips for a nub to the PUA world. Thanks!

PS: I did a search on the topic but didn't find anything of substance, if you know of something I missed please direct me and I'll try again!

you will probably have to do something like in the book the Game, like tellin her to come over you wanna show her some videos on your computer or something and the only place to sit and watch is your bed or something.

Sexting....talking dirty through texting?

It might not be the craziest thing I've ever heard, but I...I just don't know...lol.


If I were you I'd just get the number and start doing it automatically as soon as possible...like...RIGHT WHEN YOU GET THE NUMBER. Just be like...

"So I'm guessing you've got black lace panties on."

Or maybe something even more sexual...either way, it doesn't sound like that big of a hurdle. Just get the number and do it.

I'm positive she isn't going to like you asking "Hey...how about we talk dirty now?"

NO! Just do it, and she'll love it.

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You all take 'er easy. And if she's easy, take her twice.

See the problem with the just outright starting (at least i see it as a problem) is that I've had her number for a couple months now and we never started that. when the semester was first starting i got completely wasted and while i was walking back to my dorm i ran into her and some of her friends and somehow that i dont even remember got her to literally sit in the middle of the street with me at midnight (complete strangers at the time) and bluntly told her i thought she was super hot and had seen her around and that we should get together. at which point i got her number. and we've hung out since then, but for some reason i had it in my head that she was more of a good girl type, and turns out she's -really- into this sexting stuff. (and if you didnt know what that was it is just like it sounds. talking dirty over text message to the point of it getting explicit about what you want to do. phone sex basically) just figured it's something new to try my hand at for fun instead of the usual stuff.

just not sure where to begin since i'm not starting with a clean slate. if i did i'd start with something not too far from that panty line, lol.

also, in regards to this message. before all is said and done this is probably what i'll wind up doing to actually try and land her, because its such a simple procession from there. just trying to have some fun with her and learn something new first, hehe.

If you've got the number than do it right now! At this moment, and give us feedback on how it went, or how its going.

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You all take 'er easy. And if she's easy, take her twice.

The thing is, you cant change what you are in 1 day.

If you have bee nice guy for the rest of your life, you will make yourself a weirdo by doing this kind of things. But you can try.

sexting is so much fun. I use it to set the mood for next time I see her I also use humor when sexting. I always start being funny sexual in person first to make she she enjoys it if so I have a good time with it. Soon enough you can have her at your door. biggest key is don't care about it. Throw some fantasy in there and make it fun. You cant change in a day but you also never know if you don't try. you may find a new part of yourself. it's much easier to be sexual in a text and it really opens thing up for the next time you see her.