-Met this girl through her mother
-Helped mother out by giving her advice(Looking back she helped me out)
-Went on dates with her beautifal daughter
-Passed shit tests with ease, her tests were pretty immature and pissing me off so I stopped talking to her for a while.
-Called her up to give her another shot
-Went out again, keeps repeating the same shit over
-Introduced her to "friends", kid got in my face, I wasnt feeling my self and not thinking in the moment and didnt fight him
-Saw the kid 2 days ago with his "gf" he just broke up with, I think the girl is trying to test me through him now to see how ide react, and I fucked that up misserably.
-I understand and overall im happy for them but it still hurts on the inside that I felt like I backed down when thats not me.
-I also feel bad because they both tried to help me and I was a dick to both of them, I feel they both knew i had something they wanted and in the end they where going to get it, or they just wanted to help.

-Overall im fine but not sure what to do to gain my confidence back.

Crissco

Now the mother just called me becuase I was talking to one of the daughers friends giving him advice. The mother kept saying how hes trouble, thats fucked up, no one can tell you who you can and cant be friends with. Overall I believe he is bc he showed me some guns in the back of his car, for the shooting range though. Its funny because the daughter went to jail and is a coke addict. Ive been dealing with people like this my whole life, there not bad people just a missguided, like my self in certian area. I just talked to the daughter she was asking how I was doing..got into a convo, honestly I dont know what to think here anymore. I feel like I need to get away and hang out with better people but at the same time I dont want to run away and this is good experience for me. Also the last thing I want to do is jeperdize my job.

Thanks in advance

Crissco

Dude, i can understand that around a girl, you might want to fight a dude if hes messin with her or you, but its not worth the potential risk of going to jail for it. Sadly even if that makes you a pussy, Ive had friends who did a few days in jail because they wouldnt back down. Its not even guaranteed that the girl would like you or be around if you went to jail *even tho girls seem to be attracted to that for some reason*.

Its not clear how you wrote your paragraph, Are you saying this guy is her friend? I know thats hard because there was a girl i was talking to that i just wanted to ask her why does she hang out with these type of people. It not good to ask or show concern because its like a neg to them.

I don't touch cokewhores with a ten foot pole.
There's a good reason for that.


Find a better girl.

I agree. Girls who smoke crack are crazy and will steal from you.

Sadly, the only girlfriend I had was a crack whore. And like I said, she was quite out of her mind, and stole my SPAM card. And you know what? I'm desperate enough that if I ever saw her again, I probably couldn't resist asking her to get back together.


Hence my joining this forum. I'd like to be able to find some girlfriend who doesn't do all the destructive stuff my ex did. Hopefully I can find good advice about how to do this.