ok, so heres the deal. last year when i started reading "the game" i showed it to a few of my mates, which is fair enough, because its always easier operating with a wingman and i was trying to recruit a few of my mates.

anyway, so i was out one night a few weeks back, and this girl, who i work with, came up to me, and started chatting. anyways blah blah blah, then she comes out with, "aw i hear your reading a book called the game which has all these chat up lines in it!"
obviously i denied this and asked her who had told her that, to which im 95% certain (it was really loud in the club) she said this guy who im currently living with at uni.
(btw, i asked my mate and he denied it, even though i said his name was mentioned)

then again 2nite i was down where i work and another girl says to me, aw your reading the game, you'll know lots of chat up lines.
so i'm denying this and all knowledge of the game and wanting to know who the fuck is saying this. she said it was some guy but she couldn't remember who

so anyways, i'm pretty fucking raging at this, but ive 2 boys in mind who it could be.

if any of you boys where in this situation, what would you do??

cheers guys

Back home, before finding out about all of this, My friends and I were trying to come up with a book of how to date and rule number 1 was 'don't get caught in a lie'.

If someone asks you, say something like 'Yeah, but I think it's fiction. You should come over and read it.' and use it, turn it into something CF. Don't even ask who it is telling people, because that makes it seem like this dirty secret thing.

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Ok here i go , and this comes just from "theory" not from experience.

Denying gossip only re-inforces it , so never deny . I think a better option is to run with it in an ironic , sarcastic sort of way , joke about it , maybe even ridcule it.

Or just do what Fenix said.

another point that Fenix mentioned and i wish to underline is use the fact that woman dont want to believe that the game actually works , use it to your advantage.



" Every woman thinks she is a beautifull unique snowflake, that way they all are the same "

hello my fellow friend,

that sucks that happened to you... but being in this community, that happens a lot...and it happens to me ALL THE TIME...

" are you a PUA?" or "you know Mystery?"

lol... so you can do either one thing or two...
you either, deny like your doing right now and making bunch of excuses.

i say things like "i just love socializing and meeting new people" or " what is that???, are you trying to pick me up?" just turn it around to them....
or

you can just accept that your reading it
adam lyons once said something like this, " yes i am a pua, i think its a great way for men to understand women and get higher chance to meet them. Women get fake breasts and all these other superficial ways to get noticed and look beautiuful. why don't men learn how to talk to women?"

and again, your turning it around to them...

good luck buddy,

Just be like:

"I read BOOKS.The game is a BOOK.Did you read Harry Potter? Do you wave the magic wand all the time trying to make a broom fly?"

"Don't lie. Agree and make it worse." - GoneSavage

If your speaking your peace and creating an honest and non-judgmental space, then who is she to judge you for learning more about women, yourself, and pickup? The whole entire community is based off of self improvement. If women knew what we did at our lair meets, most of them would probably be proud of us for being able to look at ourselves, expose our insecurities to others, and learn to be better men!

Don't sweat it bro. Honestly, its a 50/50 split. Some women will be wildly attracted to you after finding out that you are a pick-up artist and have 3 girl friends, and some will be turned off. Guess what? The ones that are turned on are the ones you want! They are the freaks in bed. They are the ones that are understanding. They are the ones that are generally much more fun and exciting!

Live life to the fullest, be honest, and deny nothing.

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