For the past two years I have been using PUA and its worked great. I was only 19 and decided that long term dating wasnt for me. It was too stressful, i over think stuff and women in general irritate me (lol). I found if i never got too close (i.e one night stands, hit and quits, etc etc) i wouldnt get attatched and could live a life drama free. It worked out pretty well..banged a couple of dimes as well as HB5's and 6s, i was never stressed out about women and life was good, i never got attached because i pushed them away before they got too close.

Well about a month ago i met a girl at work, and tried to go about my normal PUA routine but felt my self getting more and more attracted because she would use game against me too. She wouldnt text me all the time like most girls, she was cocky/funny and so much like me it was kind of scary. We got to the point of hanging out everyday and i was getting attached like crazy. (not so much one-itis, but i really liked her)


We became exclusive and we started to fight a lot mostly because of me getting mad at stupid things....but she was playing games and it irritated the hell out of me.

One night after having sex, she was getting into the car and said 'ill text you when i get home"...she never did...so i kinda figured she was playing games...

That next night at work (we both work together) she wouldn't talk to me. If i said something to her to initiate conversation, she would give me a one word answer. Needless to say after my shift i sat down and was drinking a cup of coffee and she walked right passed me, clocked out and walked out the door without even saying Bye.

Kinda made me furious because i know i didn't do anything...so i asked her what her problem was and she said "i was stressed out, blah blah blah, my medication...blah blah" which i don't believe because she was laughing and carrying on with other employees...

I told her i was tired of her games and ended it. She said she still wanted to be friends and i told her " i dont do friends, peace"..


lol today i was thinking i was being a little too clingy maybe? Over thinking? Or did i do the right thing? Should i try and work things out (i honestly do like her...) or just Say "Fuck it"? and advice on how to avoid this in the future?

You gave into her games. You should have just ignored them. And not played. You played her games by getting mad and crawling back to her every time.

ya but im not "Crawling back"


i have ignored her for a week...Tomorrow shes going to be at work and i dunno how i should handle it...if i wanna work it out with her or just drop it