Why not isolate her? Would you be embarrassed to drag her away from the conversation to show her something cool for a second? Would it bother you or anyone else if you say, "Hey, come here really quick. I want to talk to you!

" Or maybe just get her to turn her back to the group for a second (mini-isolation), and tell her that you love how her earrings match her eyes/ her shoes match her dress/ her sense of style is fantastic/anything but a biological compliment. Don't worry. Just take your opportunities as they come, and remember "ease and delight" - Zan.
Good Luck!