i know i learned this a long time ago, but this one particular girl i've been taking out is very testy. if you are waiting in the for a friend to arrive at your location so you can move elsewhere and the girl yells at you "omg, i have to pee!" *moment of silence* "im getting fussy!" in a whiny loud voice how is this properly handled... i know what not to do (ie: react, get upset, yell at her, tell her to shut up angerly, etc). In this case I told her very firmly "we are waiting here. Then we will go". as she got more drunk and i got more drunk i lost patience when a similar situation happened later, but still remained semi-cool though, seemingly annoyed. i know there are countless examples in way of the superior man, but its been a while since i've read it and i'd like some other points of insight. thanks.

well what I would say is either "not with that attitude" or tell her to go. i mean, it's not exactly a big deal what you say, just remember to be unreactive to it. like if you're little sister/niece/whatever would tell you that, you wouldn't give over hand and foot and be like "OMG WE HAVE TO GO SO YOUR BLADDER DOESNT ERUPT," you'd probably just wait it out, be patient, and ignore her whining. Good luck


Patrick