Lately (and within the last year or two) I haven't had much motivation to get laid seeing as I've always seen sex as just a secondary way of getting off.

Could someone TRY to motivate me to get some.......if I get a good enough reply, I'd consider going out and getting some.

Maybe you shouldn't be looking for sex, but looking for a partner.

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Maybe youre gay. Thats probably it.

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Why?

If you don't want to get laid, don't bother. Focus on something else. Work on improving yourself in a way that's actually relevant to your interests.

Change your attitude. If you can't motivate yourself, nobody else can.

Before meeting the girl, spice up with an attractive new scent that makes you feel more confident, try out a new hair grooming product so that you feel as handsome as possible. Project that when talking to the girl, apply all the top tips from the PUA system and let her do all the seduction. It will work.

I've been thinking about that. I'm actually more out for finding love than sex though sex would be nice every now and then.
Your ignorance astounds me and you're completely wrong.
Sure, at times I find it to be nothing more than just another way of getting off but honestly, at other times, I have those urges to want to find someone but I dont have the motivation to actually act on those urges and try for it.

For me, my social circle is a little bit small right now, so if I go after a girl, I have to put forth all the effort and take a huge chance on rejection. If my social circle was bigger I would be able to interact more with other people, and communicate with the girls before I ask them on a date. So I can guage if they like me or not before I ask them out. For me, rejection is the hardest part in going after a girl. I am horrifed of being rejected. Not by random girls, but by girls that know me for who I am. Realizing that girls might not be in a place where I am attractive to them, or they might not understand my personaility because of there past experiences, has helped me a lot. Sure! Some guys can get a lot of girls with great looks, but I am not like that, and I'm OK with that. I think it's unhealthy to compair myself to those guys. Being able to sleep with HOT beatuiful women it a fun and exciting thing, but it doesn't make me happy. I'm different. I am happy with being a little negative. I am a little negative because my family raised me that way. There is nothing wrong with me because of it. The sooner I can accept myself and be happy with who I am. The faster I will be congurent with who I am and find the girl I want. Girls are a dime a dozen and just because they look good doesn't mean that I would be able to date them in a LTR.

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Try to go from just sex to good sex, start experimenting man!

That's why I don't have one night stands, they usually suck, I prefer to have FwB so you can work together on creating amazing sex!

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