A few of you will be aware I started Newcastle University in September. Well that is going very well save for my recent thread, except I have simply just decided that I do not want one night stands, and now I do not see that as a problem. I could have 100 woman in three years if I wanted, but that would be just for my own ego and love of the chase.
Here’s the problem. Seeing three girls and pulling others in clubs, but I like one of them quite a bit. However, she’s a virgin, so I don’t want to fuck her (I’ve not tried to blast LMR and I won’t) unless she is sober – problem is it’s like a booty call. She isn’t seeing anyone else but when she’s exceptionally fit and a surprise virgin at 19, I’m not sure if I should be the one to take that away from her.

I know this sounds AFC but I actually want to ask her if she wants sex with, just so she knows what she’s doing; I wouldn’t want her to do anything she would regret in the morning, that’s the last thing I would want.

I will not stop seeing the other two girls unless there is definitely something going on with this one, I told her she could take me to McDonalds and she forgot about it. She asked if we could go tomorrow but she forgot again, so I haven’t asked since. The only other option is to fuck her, or ask again. I’d rather just have the sex and spend time in her bed with her and not go out with her, and carry on seeing the other two girls I think. How do I go about this?

In short, I just want to take her virginity without the possibility of her regretting it.

if you like her then go about sleeping with her as you would any other girl. if you play your cards right she will want you to be that guy and will not regret it, why would she. you have no reason to feel guilty as long as youre not looking for a hit and run and as a result possibly hurting her.